My daughter is now more than three years old and is in a small class in kindergarten. Children are born without their own instructions. Therefore, all mothers nowadays give birth to children and support them by reading books, and I am no exception. Sometimes, there are so many parenting books that you really don't know how to choose. So my daughter started six months ago, and I took her to early education, which cost more than 65438+100000.
The purpose of my participation in early education is pure, not to say that children should not lose at the starting line, but to restrain themselves and their father from spending a fixed time with their children every week.
At the beginning of pregnancy, I once seriously thought:
What kind of person do I want my children to be in the future? Someone who has his own ideas and can be responsible for previous ideas?
Will I enroll my children in various remedial classes like other parents? No, definitely not. Parents totally ignore their children's thoughts.
Because of preconceived ideas, even if you spend so much money on early education, you are messing around. The teacher said that the courses should be as continuous as possible, but when I was 3 years old, I found that there were still one third of the classes. To tell the truth, parents can tell their children more about what to do after class, and I still go my own way. At that time, I basically gave my children complete freedom. I also thought I was an enlightened parent and didn't put any pressure on my children.
It was not until I entered the parent school and came into contact with positive discipline that I understood what kindness and firmness meant. I realize that entertaining is the best love parents can give their children: guiding their children to study actively and helping them to study happily! Only learning is enough for children to truly gain a foothold in this society.
Now I have enrolled my daughter in robot courses, Chinese courses, dance classes and roller skating. Someone said, "What about such a small child?" I just laughed, because after these courses, my daughter took the initiative to choose and was willing to stick to it. The real hard work is to pick up their parents.
Therefore, I am very proud that I participated in the course of "Positive Discipline in Parents' School" and corrected the wrong concept of parenting prematurely.