1. Mom should do less and give Dad a chance.

It's very tiring for a mother to take care of her children alone.

But this kind of fatigue is a bit self-inflicted. Mom is always worried about grandma and dad. For children, they never go out to play or do what they want. They think the world won't turn without her.

The truth is, dad, will grandma abuse children? number

I can't let go of my children until this summer vacation. But because of work needs, I have to go out to study 10 days. At first, I was not at ease. I watched videos with my children every day. Later, I found out that my father and I had a good life without me at home. We caught cicadas, watched movies and lived a nourishing life.

No one will turn the world around, and mom should learn to let go.

2. Ideological conflict

It is normal for couples to have different parenting concepts, and at least half of them have different parenting concepts. Because of this, sometimes the wife will come out and criticize what the husband has done, but of course the husband will not do it.

I have a colleague. Before junior high school, the husband ignored the children. Husband said: I think differently from you, so as not to conflict, you can manage it.

Later, when the children went to junior high school, the wife's control management style was useless. The husband stood up and spoke: "You don't care so much. If you care so much, you will either make your child stupid or rebel. "

Now it's good for husband and wife to work together to teach their children.

3. Praise your husband more

Sometimes I have to criticize my mother. When it comes to the fact that dad can't afford to raise children, mothers all say, "Hey, my family just refuses to take care of children except to earn money."

Yes, the key is whether you praise him or scold him when he takes care of the children.

I have a friend, a family of three take their children out to play, and her husband doesn't take good care of them, so he scolds them in the street. Think about it. If I were you, would you still take care of the children?

Now I have given it to my father. At first, I will make some mistakes because I am not familiar with it. Wouldn't it be nice to do more?

Don't let your husband do it just because he can't. The less he does it, the less he can do it.

Leisure mothers are all wise mothers. Be sure to bring our partners in to raise children, and we will be relaxed.

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