A message was screened the other day. A mother said that she was dragged into a group of parents. One mother said that the child could add and subtract ten words when he was over two years old, and the other mother was unwilling to lag behind. She said that her children had been able to learn hundreds of English words when she was three years old ... After a while, she didn't work hard, so she received dozens of messages. Parents only give her how powerful her children are, and some parents praise her. Originally, this mother was very calm, but seeing other mothers' speeches, she was almost "anxious", so she quickly withdrew from this group. I saw an example in a parenting book. A child has been attending four kinds of early education classes since he was 2 years old. His parents are very busy at ordinary times, so they need to take their children to different interest training classes during the holidays. The family of three is very tired, and the feelings between husband and wife are also hurt.
There is also a couple who have an average income, but still need to persistently send their children to big cities to learn tennis and badminton, so that their children can receive "aristocratic education" from an early age. Many people can't understand it, but they think it's worth it. In the case of children attending early education classes, many parents are definitely not out of their initial intentions, but the external environment is there, and anxious parents can't help but let their children attend early education classes. But have you ever wondered if sending your child to an early education class can realize his dream of becoming a useful person? Not necessarily, because some key points may be ignored by parents.
Ignoring parents' company is the key (1). Some parents are too busy to take care of their children, and feel that sending their children to kindergarten will be done once and for all. Send the children to the early education class during the holidays, play mobile phones outside, and rush to send them to the next class after class. (2) Some parents are very busy, and their children will pick them up when they are three years old. Because they have separated from their children and become famous, parents feel that their children are relatively cold. These two examples are to tell parents that parents are more important to their children than any early education class, and they can let their children attend early education classes, but they can't ignore their parents' companionship.