Children's feedback on their caregivers' parenting style will be very direct at the beginning, and there will be no human intervention. If you don't like it, you don't like it and don't hide it.

The reason why adults pack and hide their feelings and preferences is because they have been alienated from their hearts and lost the most direct contact with the sensory parts of the body in the long life, which has led to the decline of their sensibility. This is not necessarily a good thing.

I feel uncomfortable with my grandparents (or other places), so I need my mother's comfort and companionship. -This is a normal demand and psychological mechanism.

When children feel unhappy, they will be even more reluctant to go to unfamiliar places (early education classes). -This is also a normal psychological mechanism.

So, my suggestion is:

1, allow children to stick to you. She doesn't stick to you. Who is she loyal to? You are her safe haven. You should be happy, because children like you, are attached to you and trust you.

Children are always pestering you, which will definitely bring you some inconvenience, but this stage is very important for children. If you really love her and want to help her, then comply with her psychological needs and spend this time with her.

At the same time, you should also keep enough rest, calm mind and full patience.

2. Give your child time to adjust. In this process, don't judge and reason, just feel her and share the same frequency with her.

In time, the child will come out.

Mother's understanding and acceptance will be the best energy supply station for children's psychological growth. In fact, children are born with energy and courage. As long as these are not artificially weakened by improper parenting methods such as control, punishment and withdrawal from love, children are capable of overcoming and surpassing themselves.

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