Xiao Ting and her husband are both rural people. They struggled in big cities for five or six years. In recent years, they finally bought a suite. However, due to the repayment of the loan, their work is getting harder and harder.
Therefore, after the child is born, it can only be handed over to the elderly. But not long after, Xiao Ting found that children often cry at night. Later, when asked, I realized that the old man thought that milk powder was too expensive, and more water was needed to save money, which made Xiao Ting very angry.
Li Meijin is a famous professor of criminal psychology in China, and also an excellent child rearing expert. Regarding children's education, Professor Li Meijin said frankly: Don't break these four things prematurely, which may affect children's brain development!
These four things should not be broken prematurely, which may affect the child's brain development.
1, milk powder
Milk powder is a very important supplementary food for children in early childhood and plays a key role in their growth. Usually children can eat milk powder in about 6 months. But now because the price of milk powder is getting higher and higher, many parents give their children complementary food too early to save money. This is wrong, which may lead to insufficient nutrition of children, thus affecting physical and intellectual development.
Not only that, breast milk should not be given to children too early, and parents can also use breast milk and milk powder together at an early stage. Therefore, in milk powder, parents must not save money, and the flowers must be spent, which is related to the child's future physical growth.
2. Diapers
In the eyes of the older generation, they don't know what diapers are. Many old people think that putting diapers on their children is a waste of money, and many novice parents have no experience, so they break their children's diapers with a grain of salt, but this is wrong.
Before children 1 year old, their leg sphincter has no control ability. If you urinate, it may hurt your child's spine. According to the research, the best time to quit diapers for children is after the child 1.5 years old. At this time, it is easy to train them to go to the toilet independently, and the children will not be hurt.
Parents choose diapers mainly on the basis of water absorption, breathability and no harm to the skin. Parents are advised to know the brand before buying and determine whether it is suitable for children before buying.
Step 3: toys
Children's toys are the hearts of all children, and toys are also children's first small partners. I still remember buying me a toy when I was a child, and I wanted to sleep with it every day. Moreover, children's action ability, hands-on ability and thinking ability will be exercised in the process of playing with toys, thus promoting children's brain development.
Children playing with toys is a continuous learning process. Therefore, parents should buy some educational toys for their children within their power. Of course, we can't meet children's needs indefinitely, and proper giving will make children better.
4. Children's picture books
Many parents seem to attach great importance to their children's education. They are eager to sign up for various early education classes and interest classes every day, but they can't even read picture books with their children at home. This is equivalent to spending a lot of money to make up for their laziness.
Picture books are very important to children, and parents must not break them prematurely, especially children aged 3-6. Insisting on reading picture books can help children develop reading habits and behavior habits, promote brain development, parent-child relationship and so on.
The birth of a child is like a blank sheet of paper. What he will become in the future depends on how his parents teach him.
Knowledgeable parents are not equal to rich parents. For example, buying a set of picture books for children doesn't cost much, but it can let children learn a lot.
Professor Li Meijin recommended a set of picture books on EQ cultivation and emotional management of crooked rabbits. The book is divided into eight volumes, each of which focuses on children's psychological development and is an indispensable early teaching for children's growth.
This set of books is divided into eight different themes, which can teach children different knowledge: personality, adversity quotient, emotional management, sex education, behavior habits, financial quotient, socialization and personality stories.
If your child is under 3 years old, we can tell it to the child, just like telling a bedtime story. Children can watch by themselves after they are 3 years old, which can improve their emotional intelligence and develop a good character.
Good habits determine the future. Parents must seize the golden age of children aged 3-6, cultivate their emotional intelligence, habits and emotional management, and benefit their children for life.