Nowadays, children are mostly influenced by TV dramas or adults. They are precocious and unhappy because adults always want them to be perfect, so that they can compare their children with other people's children. With comparison, they can learn more. Parents always like watching child stars on TV, because they can dance, sing and talk like adults, don't they? This is the feeling that parents want their children to succeed. Children are simple and understandable. In fact, most of them are imitations, and the consciousness may not know the profound meaning at all. As for how to give children a childhood, you can guide them to choose what they like instead of forcing them to study. You can let them judge for themselves whether something on TV is right or wrong, and know the reason, so as to inject fruit. Let them make more friends, guide them correctly in their studies, and let them find themselves happy in their studies, instead of simply looking for a job and their future life. Don't care too much about your grades. Parents know their children best. Give them encouragement. Personal opinion, I hope I can give you some help!