"Look how cool it is, and it's convenient to go to the toilet." An aunt pointed to her grandson and told me.
The little guy was crawling around on the ground in open-backed pants.
"How dirty the ground is, what should I do if I am bitten by a bug?" I asked my aunt.
"Oh, boy, there is nothing clean, not so delicate." My aunt looked at me with a pie mouth as if I was too worried.
I shook my head and said nothing.
I've made mistakes in wearing open-backed pants for children, and grapefruit has been hurt. Therefore, I have always advised mothers who wear open-backed pants for their children not to wear them for their children, which is not only hygienic, but also prevents some people from being malicious.
Because my nephews grew up wearing open-backed pants, they found it convenient to change them at first, and it was not bad to change diapers.
So when I was preparing clothes for grapefruit, I prepared open-backed pants and asked my mother-in-law to open them.
When grapefruit was five months old, we returned to Jiangxi with grapefruit. At that time, the weather was hot, so I put open-backed pants on grapefruit instead of diapers, and then dad grapefruit took the children out.
After a while, father grapefruit came back with crying grapefruit.
I quickly hugged the child and asked what was going on. Papa grapefruit said that a friend teased grapefruit and made it cry.
I asked them how funny they were, and they made the child cry.
Father grapefruit said that they always touch the penis of grapefruit, and a friend played it several times, which may hurt the child.
When I saw it, grapefruit's penis was red and swollen, which made me scold grapefruit's father.
Grapefruit dad said that those people are his friends, and he can't say anything. Besides, those people also like children and miss Doby.
From then on, I will never wear grapefruit open-backed pants again. No matter whether these people are good at teasing children or have poor taste, it is disrespectful to tamper with their private parts.
It is entirely because I am an adult that I bully my children and use them as a tool for fun.
There is another phenomenon that I don't know if you have noticed. Most people who wear open-backed pants or naked clothes are boys.
Especially some old people, even deliberately exposed the genitals of the little boy, for fear that others would not know that this is their grandson.
In the consciousness of many parents, girls need strict protection, while boys don't.
This is actually our habitual thinking at work since ancient times: all women are sexually assaulted.
However, according to statistics, the number of boys in child sexual assault cases is twice that of girls.
In other words, boys are actually more dangerous than girls!
Moreover, if you wear open-backed pants, boys are more likely to get hurt and have a greater risk of being hit.
I think many parents will let their children wear open-backed pants or light pants because they think their children are young and have no privacy.
Children really don't know what privacy is, but it doesn't mean they have no dignity. They won't protect their dignity by themselves, but we parents can't help it.
When I took pictures of oranges for a hundred days, the clerk strongly recommended me to take a group of pictures of fruits.
To tell the truth, that set of black and white fruit photos is really nice. I've seen many parents choose that one.
I was really touched, but I refused in the end. The clerk laughed at me for being too cautious and said that I was worried too early and the child was still so young. It's not too late to worry about it in more than ten years.
But I don't feel early at all. I don't want my little guy to be embarrassed to see his set of fruit photos in the future. If she wants to take it herself, she can take it. I can't make this decision for her.
And now the information disclosure is terrible. Some time ago, it was reported that someone posted pictures of children on the internet for dirty trading!
So I think it's better to be cautious sometimes, and don't cause any hidden dangers to children.
Of course, if we want to remember, we can take some large-scale photos of our children in private, but we'd better keep them for ourselves and don't send them to our circle of friends to avoid being used by others.
I have been instilling an idea in oranges and grapefruit that the body is a person's greatest privacy, and no one can look at it except himself, even mom and dad.
When grapefruit was over two years old, I told him "Serena Rushing Forward". When he was more than three years old, he already knew to ask his grandmother and me to avoid going to the toilet.
Even for a while, I insisted that my father give him a bath, because my grandmother and I are both girls.
However, most parents, including some industries specializing in early childhood education, have not noticed this problem.
Once I went shopping, in front of me was a little girl of five or six years old, skipping around, the wind blowing her skirt, and then I accidentally saw that she was not wearing * * *.
At that time, her parents followed and didn't notice anything wrong.
So far, I have been to several swimming pools in Guangzhou. It's all boys and girls taking a bath together. Some babies are four or five years old.
And all swimming pools are floor-to-ceiling windows and transparent glass. In order to make it easier for parents to watch outside, there are also many strangers standing outside.
I have also seen many parents change their children's diapers in public, or let their children pee directly on the road or roadside, regardless of the strange eyes of passers-by.
Especially in summer, there are children running around naked or wearing open-backed pants everywhere.
Every time there are reports of sexual abuse of young children on the Internet, netizens make a hullabaloo about, hoping to cut the perpetrators to pieces.
The perpetrators are really hateful, and death is not enough!
Careless or neurotic parents, if they can pay more attention to protecting their children's privacy and pay attention to basic sexual enlightenment education for their children, instead of hiding or using their children as an excuse,
Many tragedies can actually be avoided.
If we give our children more protection, they will be hurt less!
Therefore, the first sex education class for children begins with never wearing open-backed pants for children!
Ps: How to educate children about sex is a problem that many treasure mothers are very concerned about, but everyone seems embarrassed to tell them directly. After that, mother grapefruit will launch a series of articles in this regard, such as telling children how he came, how to tell them the difference between boys and girls, and what to do if children bump into their parents.