And I'm really into it, and I'm worried. How to do long-term myopia ~ ~
Monica has had it before. The children next door often come to the door and often play games with their ipad, as if to show off.
I'm always obsessed with Monica, shouting to play and buy, and I have a headache, too. Later, I discussed it with Mo's father and didn't let the children go home, which had a great influence.
Nowadays, playing with mud and running all over the street is a thing of the past. Walking on the road, I saw children's hands full of mobile phones and tablets.
In fact, it's really hard for you to say that all the controls are good and you don't want to play with the baby. The first baby is curious. The more you object to her, the more she wants to play.
Secondly, mobile phones appear so many times in the family now that we have to make phone calls and watch the news ourselves, which is also difficult to control.
Therefore, today's article is not to ask Bao Dad Ma Bao to put an end to mobile phones, but to think about how to make the baby not interested in mobile phones.
Moreover, we must control the time, know the disadvantages, and know that if we pay attention to some things in life, in fact, the baby will not care so much about playing mobile phones.
Next, let's talk about the disadvantages of playing mobile phones for a long time:
Playing mobile phones for a long time will affect vision development.
Is the baby's vision simply related to genetic factors, or is it determined by congenital factors and acquired factors?
Although there is no final conclusion about the science period, based on Mo Ma's own experience, I think acquired factors also play a role.
When my father and I were studying, we were nearsighted and belonged to reading glasses.
If you speak well, it is often caused by reading, but if you don't speak well, it is mostly caused by playing computer games before.
Some time ago, I took Monica to an early education class. Most of them are 2-3 years old babies, and there are nearly 20 babies in them, 7-8 of whom wear glasses.
I also specially asked those precious parents, do their babies usually play mobile phones much? Guess what they said?
"At ordinary times, I am less at home. He is very noisy. After playing mobile phone, as long as he has a mobile phone, he won't make trouble. A mobile phone can solve all the problems. "
It really hurts me to see such a small baby wearing glasses.
Can lead to inattention
A comparative experiment published in the American Journal of Pediatrics shows that babies who talk on the phone while crossing the street are more likely to have traffic accidents than those who don't.
Moreover, accustomed to communicating with people through mobile phones, it is easy for babies to become weak, lonely and paranoid, which affects their thinking patterns.
In fact, just like us adults, if we answer the phone by car, it will definitely lead to distraction, and sending a WeChat at the traffic lights is more likely to cause great disaster.
Similarly, the baby's premature contact with the mobile phone will also lead to distraction, inattention, and the frequency of accidents will be much greater.
Some parents will let their babies play with their mobile phones for a while before going to bed, or watch cartoons on the iPad for a while. Actually this is very wrong.
Because watching the splash screen before going to bed will affect the baby's normal biological clock, thus affecting the quality of sleep, and the damage to vision is greater than usual.
Moreover, the baby is easy to get excited when playing mobile phone at night, which leads to very low sleep quality. Just like we adults watch mobile phones at night, the more we watch them, the more we don't want to sleep, and so do babies.
Studies have shown that the average sleep time of babies with mobile phones is 2 1 minute shorter than that of babies without mobile phones.
Having said that, what should be corrected at ordinary times? The next step is dry goods!
Do not install games or video applications.
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That is, every baby likes to play mobile phones, and he will not be interested in himself in the early stage, mostly because of the application inside.
Monica used to play with her mobile phone like this. She couldn't understand it on her mobile phone, so she just ordered it. And if you install some games and fancy applications, your baby's interest will come up. Therefore, when the baby plays with the mobile phone, I suggest that parents delete some games and video applications on the mobile phone. A good friend of mine used this trick to delete all the applications that the baby was interested in. The baby can only click this and that with his mobile phone, and soon he is not interested.
Make rules with your baby and stick to them.
Many precious parents confide in each other, most of them are "I can't control my baby, Teppy."
In fact, most of the problems lie in "making rules".
When playing mobile phones, we should make strict rules, including ourselves.
For example, you can only watch or play with your mobile phone for an hour a day, and your parents are with your baby, not alone.
In this way, you can control the choice, time and distance of the program.
If the baby doesn't give up or cry and protest, it must be done according to the regulations. Never fetch water one day and catch fish one day.
Because only in this way can the baby abide by the agreement, it is also important to cultivate the baby's awareness of rules from an early age.
Distract the baby.
In fact, many times babies like to play with mobile phones because their parents are too quiet and want to be alone.
In this case, the baby's attention is naturally on the parents, and the baby will learn what the parents are doing now, so this sentence comes from setting an example.
Actually, I quite understand. If you are a working mother, you are very tired at work every day. I have to come back to cook, wash clothes and take care of the baby after work. Really tired.
Sometimes I really want to have a rest in this respect, and I really understand. But we can't relax the discipline of the baby. I had an experience because I usually came back late and was very tired. My suggestion is housework. If you are really tired after completing these tasks, you can take your baby to bed or play in the toy area and turn your attention to other aspects.
You can sit by and watch the baby play and talk to the baby from time to time, so that you can be with the baby, control the whole audience and have a rest. This is what I often do. No matter how tired I am, I will lie down and watch her play happily. I will be happy when I am tired.
Go out for a walk and take the baby out to play.
Before sending Monica to the early education class, many parents asked me how I was doing.
In fact, to be honest, although interest comes first, I care more about the baby's communication.
Because it will be boring for her to stay at home every day, she will be very happy and make new friends by signing up for early classes.
Many parents may say, "I don't know many people near home, most of them have gone out for a walk, and I don't know about the baby party."
In fact, parents have this kind of psychology, and most of their babies will do this in the future, because communication is to know strangers, and you won't know until you go out.
And understanding is also a process. I moved to a new house before, and no one in the community understood. It's the same as going out and talking to others more before I met them.
Therefore, in terms of housing, you should set an example, don't be afraid of trouble, go out more, get together with other baby mothers, and don't stay at home all day. It's really bad.
Baby's childhood is only once, perhaps because of work, it is difficult for us to stay with them all the time.
When we can be with the baby, try to put the phone aside, spend more time, hold the baby in your arms, appreciate it slowly, and really have the baby these years.