I never thought that I would be hurt so deeply by kind people. That day, in the face of a sudden blow, I was sweating all over, but I couldn't shed a tear. I have tasted what it means to be wronged and seek perfection. What is breaking a tooth and swallowing it?

When I finished everything and sat alone on the sofa, my tears kept flowing like broken beads. Why am I so kind to you, but you hurt me deeply? I thought about it for a long time, and finally understood that you take it for granted because I am too good to you.

It was from that day on that I learned to be strong and treat myself well. I must be strong, because there are family, parents and children besides love in this world. I won't live for love. From that day on, I learned to be kind to myself. I love myself more and more every day. I found that when you love yourself more, others will look at you. If you don't even love yourself, who will see you as humble?

Yes, although I experienced the deepest injury, the injury did not knock me down, because she was not worth paying a heavy price for. Why should I pay for other people's mistakes?

You will grow up after the injury. Now I, even if there is a storm coming at me, will not hit me half a point. I will live stronger and stronger, more and more exciting and better!

One night that summer, I called my husband on business, but at the moment when the phone was connected, I only heard a woman yelling at me, "What are you doing?" "Just then, I suddenly found my husband outside.

On this matter, he strongly refuted me and gave me a cold war, as if I had done something wrong. I settled down to think that a few years ago, in order to accompany my child to school, I lived at home and he lived in a shop. For this family, I do business during the day, cook and wash clothes, and accompany my children at night. I'm never free. I scrimped and saved, and it was not easy for them to buy a dress for several years. Finally, I became an outsider and was rejected.

It doesn't matter if no one loves me. I love myself, so I don't quarrel with him. If conditions permit, I also make an appointment with my friends for a short trip, and I am willing to buy clothes and cosmetics for myself. I tidy myself up beautifully every day and feel much better. I don't care who he is with anymore. I use my spare time to exercise, learn to dance damm and go to karaoke bars. I like reading some good articles, and I also want to teach myself to write, enrich my later life and broaden my horizons. Yes, life is not just the present, but also poetry and distance. Why confine yourself to marriage? Love and marriage are just a part of life. Don't let it dominate you. You are the subject of fate. Your joys and sorrows are dominated by yourself, and you live on cloud nine.

On the day when my heart was hurt the most, I learned to let go and learn to be strong!

It was the third year after marriage, and the Spring Festival was coming soon. I discussed with Jie Jun that I would bring my children back to my home for the Spring Festival this year.

At first, Jie Jun agreed to let me go home with him and tell his mother.

Unexpectedly, I said what I thought, and my mother immediately objected: The child is so small and the road is long, how can it be done!

I looked at Jie Jun for help, hoping that he could help me.

I didn't expect him to let me down as soon as he spoke. "That's what I was thinking, otherwise we can't go back. Wait until the child is older and then go back. "

I was so angry that I couldn't speak. The child is almost three years old, and I haven't taken the child back to my grandparents' house yet.

Although my parents have been comforting me on the phone, I know in my heart that since I left, my parents have been unable to let go: I am afraid that I will feel uncomfortable and I will be wronged.

I think at the beginning, he chased me so hard in college and used a lot of sweet words to catch up with me. The students say that we are a match made in heaven.

I plan to go back to my hometown and my parents after graduation. They gave me all their love, and I will provide for them in the future.

But since the relationship with Jie Jun was confirmed, his parents began to contact their son's work unit and wanted to solve my work.

At first, I firmly opposed it. As soon as I graduated from Normal University, I was worried that I couldn't find a job as a teacher.

According to the original plan, I was going to graduate school, thinking of going back to my hometown and teaching in a middle school at worst.

But near graduation, Jie Jun and I discussed that we should get a marriage certificate so that our parents can arrange a job for you.

At that time, Jie Jun was very kind to me and would discuss everything with me. Although he thinks his parents are too strong, he wants to live his own life after marriage and will not be bound by them too much. It's a holiday at most. Just go back and have a look politely.

But things are far from as simple as I thought. After Jie Jun graduated, I passed the civil service examination and entered a public institution, and I entered a vocational middle school.

At that time, my parents knew that we had established a relationship and knew about his family's situation, and they resolutely opposed it. Such a strong family, I will be wronged after I say it.

I was carried away by love, and I couldn't listen to a word my parents said. He also said that if he bullied me again, I would divorce him!

Parents sighed, shook their heads and said nothing.

When they got married, the house and car were all bought by their family, and the house was naturally in his son's name.

Mother saw that everything was ready and there was no financial burden after we got married, so she said nothing more.

A year later, we had a child. At that time, my mother came to take care of me and the baby herself. When the child was three months old, the mother went back because the father was in poor health.

Later, I hired a nanny to take care of the children with me. When my maternity leave expires, grandma will take the children to their home and bring the nanny with her.

Later, every time I went home to see the children, his grandmother always looked like a high horse, as if letting me see the children was the biggest reward for me. It makes people feel very uncomfortable!

Whenever I talk to Jie Jun about my unhappiness, he always says: It is not easy for a mother to take care of her children. It doesn't matter. The baby will always be ours.

However, every time he buys clothes and toys for his children, his grandmother puts them aside without even looking, which is rare for children to wear.

Even if the child was young two years ago, now, the child is almost three years old, and there is nothing wrong with grandparents wanting to meet their grandchildren.

I didn't expect Jie Jun to back out for a while. Am I wrong about him, or has he been pretending?

I think he should be a man of his own mind and should refute his parents' excessive demands.

However, it turns out that I was wrong again! He is a baby boy. As long as his parents said, he only listened and never raised any objections.

I remember my child had a fever when he was a child. I suggest going to the hospital at once. Jie Jun said not to worry. He immediately called his mother and asked what to do.

I was tearing my hair out at the side: the child is ours. Do you still need to ask your mother for advice on treating your child?

A few things later also made me extremely disappointed in him. Whenever something needs to be decided at home, he will tell his mother at the first time. When you go home alone during the holiday and enroll your child in an early education class, you must ask his mother's permission!

How can I live like this? I held back my tears. I turned away with my child in my arms, no longer caring what Jie Jun and his parents thought.

Jie Jun chased him out, and his mother's voice sounded behind him: Let her go back by herself, and the child will never be taken away. ...

Jie Jun's pace was slow and gradually stopped.

When I stepped on the train home, my heart suddenly became clear: the marriage I have been trying to maintain and the children I can't give up have all become their chips to blackmail me. ...

Let go, let go of this unreal feeling, along with my scarred heart. ...

On the day when my heart was hurt the most, the whole person was exhausted, but I was on the verge of collapse, and the last straw could shock me. Only when you have experienced it in your life can you deeply understand the suffocating pain of being cheated, cheated and hurt, and you can't cry. I don't feel my eyes open until dawn every day. Thanks to the encouragement and comfort of my parents and family, I can go to the present and live strong in those painful and dark days. It was like walking on a flat road and suddenly falling into a black hole. All I could see at that time was darkness, loneliness and helplessness. No matter how much my family and friends can help you, they can only cheer you up outside the black hole. They reach out to help you, but they can't get close to you. Only when you try to climb out of the hole can others help you. After climbing out of the black hole, I felt reborn. I thank my parents, my family and all my friends for letting go of the past and living a good life. Sunshine mentality Sunshine life, I will not forgive the person who hurt me, but I don't want to live with hatred, because I don't want to punish myself with other people's mistakes, but I will remember that he hurt me for a better life, and you are happier than him. Sunshine is the best way to hug him! If you don't let go of the pain of the past, you will never be happy, let alone walk out of the black hole of life and live in a dark world forever. This is not exactly what someone wants. Women should be self-reliant and live a noble life every day! I am a single mother. Although I live a strong life with my children alone, I am very happy and at ease with my children now. Out of the shadow of domestic violence and marital breakdown, my world will be more exciting! Come on! Single mothers! There are no obstacles in this world except life and death! Write down your feelings, just want girls to open their eyes when looking for their other half and check whether your future lover is violent and heartless. Responsibility? Grateful? Take this as a standard to see if he is qualified to be your wife? Personal thoughts are for reference only.

"On the cruelest day of my heartbreak, I learned not to die easily, but to live hard."

I can't change others, only myself.

Maybe it's because of the influence of family when I was a child. As I grew older, I became more and more aware of my personality defects. I used to think I was cold. Later, I slowly discovered that it used to be depression, but now it is bipolar disorder. Haha, but I told others, and everyone said I thought too much and thought I was joking.