1. Let children learn to talk to strangers. Some parents are afraid that their children will get into trouble when they go out alone, but they will scare their children, and their children will become timid and afraid of meeting strangers; Some parents are afraid that their children will go out and be bullied by others. They are afraid that their children will suffer and learn badly. It is better to stay at home. Some people are afraid that their children will be exposed to infectious diseases and are willing to keep them behind the door.
The fact is that it is not safe to associate with unsafe strangers. Therefore, parents should create conditions, go out to socialize with others more, encourage their children to play with the children around them, and let their children naturally improve their communication skills in the interaction with strange children. For example: often say hello to neighbors, say hello; Play games with familiar, gentle and older children; Then slowly transition to visit relatives and friends, go to the park with your companions, and use the opportunity of taking public transportation and walking to get in touch with strangers.
2. Guide children to shop
Children aged 3 to 7 can shop under the guidance of their parents. For example, let him buy his favorite toys, cards, stationery, snacks and so on. When children communicate with salespeople, they also learn communication skills. If the child has difficulties at first, the mother can encourage the child and teach him to say "please ask the assistant aunt to take that toy dog away", "how much" and "thank you", so that the child can gradually speak for himself.
Encourage children to invite them to play at home. Modern parents often have a misunderstanding, that is, they want to keep their homes clean and intact at all times. Therefore, parents are reluctant to let their children invite their neighbors' children to play at home. At most, they simply communicate in the community. If parents encourage their children to invite them to play at home, they will have more time together and have more opportunities to learn to deal with disputes that may arise during the game.
4. Encourage your children to go to Children's Home. The communication between children is the same as that between adults. You can invite them in or out. Both are equally important. In order to prevent children from causing trouble to others, children can be asked to bring some small gifts to their homes, which is both thoughtful and polite, and also allows children to learn to share.
5. Give children full freedom. If you look closely, you can find that some children like to play with younger children, while others like to play with older children.
Some parents worry that their children will suffer from playing with older children, so they restrict their children from playing with older children. But the fact is more likely: children who play with older children can learn the communication methods of younger brothers and sisters; I learned to take care of others by interacting with children younger than myself.
Therefore, please fully respect your children and give them the right to choose their children freely. You just need to help with some reference when necessary.
6. Traveling around with your child can expand your child's contacts and increase his contacts. At the same time, walking more and seeing more will also increase children's understanding of foreign culture or customs.
7. Teach children to use polite language, cultivate civilized and polite behavior habits, and let children form modest and polite behaviors to better adapt to social interaction. Teach children polite language in dealing with people, such as greeting people and answering the phone, how to answer other people's questions, and seek directions and suggestions from others.
When children can use polite expressions well in front of acquaintances or strangers, they usually get good feedback from the other side, which is of great benefit to enhancing their confidence in communication. When a child is praised and encouraged by others, he will be more willing to communicate, which invisibly increases the opportunities for children to communicate actively, and the communication ability of children will be improved accordingly.
8. Correct misconduct in communication. Like adults, children may have inappropriate behaviors in the process of communication, such as bullying children or being too stingy. Improper behavior in these interactions may make children unpopular among children. At this time, the task of parents is to help the child understand inappropriate behavior, help him improve his behavior and regain lasting friendship.
9. Respect children's communication personality. Although good communication skills are very beneficial to children's success and happiness, please don't interfere too much with children's communication methods. In fact, everyone has his own personality, and the improvement of communication ability is not only the increase of the number of friends. You should know that even a person can be a good lifestyle. If your child is willing to communicate with others in his own way, you should respect him.