1. Agree with the children. Parents should reach an agreement with their children before they clamor to play with their mobile phones. For example, you can only have a mobile phone after you have finished your own business. The password on the mobile phone can't be known to children, in case children secretly play with the mobile phone, and it can only be unlocked by parents. 2. The strict implementation of the prescribed time is that after the child reaches an agreement, parents need to set the time for the child to play the mobile phone. For example, you can't play mobile phones for more than an hour every day. If you play with your mobile phone over time, you won't have the right to use it next time. We must strictly abide by the time control, and we must not be soft-hearted just because the child is crying. After reaching such rules with children, you can reduce the time children spend on mobile phones; 3. Parents lead by example. Not only children are addicted to mobile phones, but many of us adults are also addicted to mobile phones. Many times we are still brushing our mobile phones in the middle of the night, which has played a bad leading role for children. It is inevitable that children will be influenced by such behavior when they meet their parents. In addition, if parents can't do it, they can't ask their children to do it. Therefore, parents should take the lead in setting an example, control their time to play mobile phones, try not to play mobile phones at night, spend more time with their children, and care more about their growth and study; 4. divert the child's attention. Children who play mobile phones spend most of their time on them because they have no fun in life. Therefore, parents need to cultivate children's interest and keep their attention away from mobile phones. Parents can take their children to participate in group activities, sign up for their favorite interest classes, take their children to the library on weekends, and take them to make friends and do outdoor sports. .
2. Is there any way to solve the problem that children are addicted to playing mobile phones?
It is normal for children to be addicted to mobile phones, usually because they have nothing else to do or are not interested in other things. Proper entertainment is ok. If the child is too indulgent, parents need to do some coercion, which is the responsibility of parents when the child does not have enough ability and self-control to distinguish between good and bad. If parents have the conditions, they can often take their children to participate in some activities, travel more, and expose their children to other hobbies, such as music, dance and calligraphy. Let children find their hobbies. Taking up children's online time can reduce their internet addiction.
If children have been involved in the Internet for a long time now and there is no way to discipline them, they must take compulsory measures, such as strictly controlling the online time every day, supervising their children, or sending them to Zhengzhou Chenfeng Education School and other youth education schools to isolate them from the Internet for a period of time.
In fact, parents have a great responsibility for their children's "internet addiction", if they can pay more attention to their children's growth. Let him have the correct three views and strong self-control ability, these things can be prevented. So parents are the best teachers for children.
3. How to quit children's addiction to playing mobile phones
First, divert attention. If the child has fallen in love with mobile games, forcibly confiscating the child's mobile phone at this time will not only get no effect, but will also be strongly resisted by the child, and hard resistance will not have any results.
At this time, it is better to use other things to attract children's attention. Educational animation and interesting manual activities with early education function may be favored by children. If these tricks don't work, why not use delicious food to arouse children's interest? Second, parents rarely make wrong demonstrations. Nowadays, in many families, some young parents have nothing to do at home, so they will pick up their mobile phones and use them desperately. Whether doing business with mobile phones or playing video games, in the eyes of children, parents are all controlled by mobile phones. Over time, parents' behavior will give their children a wrong demonstration. Many children said: the family seldom communicate together, and everyone bowed their heads and played with their mobile phones. Fourth, don't put your mobile phone where children can reach it. Some parents still keep their mobile phones where their children can easily get them after deciding to quit their children's mobile phone addiction. It's easy for them to quit addiction again and again. Now that you have decided to protect children from the poison of electronic products, you must do things thoroughly.
Once a child is addicted to electronic products such as mobile phones, it will cause endless troubles. If parents don't work hard to help their children get rid of this fatal problem, they will delay their children's life. Of course, they will stay away from electronic hazards. The power of being a role model for parents is very powerful.
4. How to quit your child's cell phone addiction
Children's internet addiction is closely related to improper family education, unscientific school education and bad social and cultural influence. Addicted to the Internet, Internet addiction is serious, and it is not good for your health for a long time. If you want help, go to Nanning Brain Doctor Hospital! Let you know that the most important thing in life is to choose, not to make a mistake and leave a permanent regret! Yes! With the development of Internet, more and more people are addicted to it without knowing it. Just like the Yuanda Drug Rehabilitation Center in Jinan! Help you learn to resist the temptation of a net! If children want to get rid of Internet addiction completely, the key is to let them realize the harm of Internet addiction and consciously stay away from the Internet. Therefore, the best way to help children quit Internet addiction is communication. As parents, we should keep a rational attitude, communicate with our children slowly and tell them that computers are tools to help us learn and grow.
In addition, give children enough care, but don't indulge in love. Spend more time with your children and don't pay too much attention to their studies. When children make mistakes or encounter difficulties in their studies, don't scold them, but guide them to realize the mistakes and correct them. We should criticize less and encourage more, so that children can build up their self-confidence. Do more parent-child activities, travel, sports, etc. , close the parent-child relationship.
5. What should I do if my child is addicted to playing mobile phones?
Children rely on mobile phones because there are 200 friends in the social phone address book, 300 friends in the WeChat circle of friends and more than 4,000 friends in various QQ groups. Such a strong personal relationship makes it difficult for children to give up.
There are many online games in game-based mobile phones, and the achievements and experience accumulated in long-term battles have made children's sense of accomplishment bursting. Entertainment-dependent mobile phone friends and games are not many, all of which are movies and music photos, which make children feel high and always want to touch their mobile phones when they don't want to do homework.
If children are particularly dependent on mobile phones, as parents, it is best to analyze what kind of children their children belong to first, and then prescribe the right medicine to find a solution. Parents should fully respect children's privacy and independent personality when managing their children's mobile phones.
Without proper control, supervision or nagging, children will feel that the shadow of parental control is everywhere, which will only lead to greater rebellion. There are generally four ways for parents to control their children to play mobile phones: the first way is to play casually-buy smart phones for their children without restrictions on their use. As long as the child runs a red light and doesn't play games, parents let the child play and ignore it.
The second kind of random management-buying smart phones for children, according to the occasion, use time and other factors, management is needed, and it is ignored if it is not needed. For example, I heard that Wang Ermao, a classmate next door, lost his mobile phone performance, so he confiscated his child's mobile phone when he went home.
Later, I heard that Wang Ermao ran away from home, so I quickly returned my mobile phone to my child. The third kind of soft isolation-buy smart phones for children, but limit the use time, confiscate them when the time comes, or don't give money to buy traffic packets.
In non-entertainment time, besides making phone calls and sending text messages, the only remaining function of children's smartphones is to look at the time. The only snake game was also forcibly uninstalled.
The fourth kind of hard isolation-don't buy a mobile phone for your child, or buy an 82-year-old black-and-white screen mobile phone for your child, for example, buy a Nokia big-screen old man-machine with the original price of 199 yuan and a discount of 195 yuan. Just to get in touch with children anytime, anywhere.
I think it will be very effective if we can stay in the fourth category, but in fact, many parents have gone through four stages, basically changing from the first category to the fourth category. Why is this happening? Let's analyze it from the perspective of human nature.
The reason why parents' control effect on children is getting worse and worse: 6- 12 years old, parents will carry out conditional control. We will think that it is no problem for children to play after school because of their hard work.
People, the most important thing is to be happy. As long as you are happy, everything will be fine. Occasionally, I feel a little worried when I see a child playing mobile phone and losing money on the Internet. However, I am relieved to see the child so obedient. People, the most important thing is to be happy.
12- 18 years old, started to control under high conditions. Because the seriousness of the problem has been discovered at this time, the child saw that the eyes of the mobile phone were straight to wait for a while, and the light in the eyes was brighter than the screen of the mobile phone.
Children are getting impatient to talk to their parents, but they are willing to brush the machine patiently for more than ten hours for a basically useless device. At this time, things got out of control.
Some parents gave up and picked up their mobile phones to brush their circle of friends to relieve boredom. So you see, Rome was not built in a day. We often wait until the problem is serious before trying to solve it from the source. At this point, there is no source.
Even at the beginning, we didn't have a very clear understanding, and when we had time or energy to deal with it, it was too late. So what do we need to do? Ten ways for parents to enhance the control effect 1. Let children touch electronic products as late as possible. Try not to play too many mobile phones, ipad and other electronic products for children before going to school. Children go to school, have a certain degree of self-control, and then slowly cultivate the habit of using electronic products.
Especially children before the age of two or three, don't play with them, because the * * * on the screen has a great influence on the development of eyes. Children's resistance to electronic products is like the resistance of the negative pole of a magnet to the positive pole, and there is basically no resistance.
So don't think that children are cultivating intelligence by playing electronic products. I think it's better to knead a ball with mud than to cut the fruit. 2. Hide the electronic products as much as possible, so as not to let the children know. When the children are very young, put the electronic products such as mobile phones and ipad out of the reach of the children as much as possible, and tell them that they are used by their mothers for work, not for play. Then the children's first interest will be weakened and they will turn to other things.
Children have a keen interest in everything. As long as you put away your mobile phone, he will naturally find another thing he is interested in, such as iPad and so on. Of course, the iPad should be put away.
Parents should set an example and don't play games in front of their children. No matter how much they like playing games, they can't play as long as the children are there. If you want to play, you can play alone where the children can't see it.
Legally speaking, all the people who are close to Zhu Zhechi are black, and we are just slaves of mobile phones, so don't influence our children. I have seen some parents show off many game functions of their new mobile phones with their children. This is not abetting a crime.
4. When children are naughty, don't treat playing mobile phone as a reward. This is a mistake made by many parents. As long as children are disobedient and don't eat, they will give electronic products to their children in exchange for eating or obeying. Often, once children want to play, they will make trouble, don't eat, don't want to do anything, and tell you. At this time, it is estimated that many parents have not folded yet, and once they get used to it, it will be difficult to change.
Therefore, it is recommended to grasp the starting point and not let children develop this bad habit. In fact, it's just like some people heard that drinking is harmful to health, so it took ten years to finally replace drinking with smoking. What's the use? 5. Give children more interesting books or take part in outdoor activities. Once the child is addicted, don't worry too much, and help the child quit slowly.
Try to distract children's attention, such as giving them many interesting books, taking them to read stories together, or taking them to outdoor activities, so that children can make friends and slowly cultivate their various other interests, so that their interest in playing electronic products such as mobile phones and ipad will gradually decline. Some parents leave a message with the official WeChat account.