The way parents and teachers treat us has been deeply engraved in our blood. Whether it is right or scientific, it has become some kind of "unconscious" behavior of us. Life has become the last thing we want to see. It is not until we tell our children the last thing we want to hear that we suddenly realize what is the biggest resistance in the parent-child relationship between our children and us.
How to make rules for children is the most effective? How to make children understand what they have done wrong? I hope these problems that most often bother us can be inspired by this article. The behavior of reprimanding children in public, running into the middle of the road or pushing other children off the swing is generally considered dangerous, and parents should prohibit their children from doing so.
"But avoid educating children in front of others. If you do this, he will be more concerned about who overheard your conversation than what you tried to teach him. Dr. Erica Ritzer, author of "What Great Parents Do: 75 Simple Strategies for Children to Grow Strong", said this. Find a private place where you can talk about what just happened without being disturbed by others.
If you can't find a suitable place at 1: 30, you can simply tell your child that his behavior is inappropriate and tell him to talk to him later when he goes home. At the same time, in this case, we must keep our promise and engage in this dialogue. Before, you said to the child, "Don't throw his coat on the ground." Will say it a million times. Why did he do it? Maybe you can't think of the reason why she didn't teach many times. Maybe it's because he doesn't know what happened.
Dr. Reschel said: "Education should pay attention to the child's behavior itself, rather than comparing him with other children." We should stop comparing children, pay attention to their good behavior and praise and affirm them in time. Especially in a two-child family, it can promote the harmony between the two children.