Take my colleague as an example. She said that her mother-in-law helped take care of the children so that she could come out to work. It turns out that she is really grateful and often buys clothes and gifts for her mother-in-law to make her happy.
But later, she found that her son's breath was very heavy, especially in the morning, and the smell was very smoky. My son doesn't like eating yet. He can't eat a few bites at a time, and he won't coax a meal.
I thought it was the child's own spleen and stomach. I didn't expect to accidentally see the picture of my mother-in-law breastfeeding her child. She was disappointed in her mother-in-law at once.
It turned out that my mother-in-law used to taste the food "hot or not" bite by bite, chew the food with her mouth and feed it to her baby.
To this end, she quarreled with her mother-in-law. However, my mother-in-law thinks she is right. It was not until the child went to the hospital to check that she was infected with bacteria that her mother-in-law realized that she had done something wrong and would never feed her baby like this again.
Indeed, some old people in life are a bit stubborn. Influenced by some traditional ideas of bringing babies, they will bring babies in the wrong way, but this will bring trouble to Ma Bao.
But the old man didn't know it, and he felt that he had done his best, and the contradiction between the two generations was more likely to intensify.
Grandma often makes three kinds of mistakes when taking care of the baby. She hurt her child without knowing it. Once Ma Bao finds out, she should stop immediately.
1 mouth to mouth, feed the baby.
Some old people love their babies very much. They are afraid that the food will burn their children when feeding their babies, and the old people will chew with their mouths. Some old people don't know how to use "public chopsticks" and will help their babies with their own chopsticks.
There are also some old people who especially love their babies. They are not satisfied with holding the baby, but also holding the baby and kissing mouth to mouth.
Therefore, it is easy for the elderly with stomach diseases to infect their children with Helicobacter pylori. If Ma Bao finds grandma taking care of the children like this, remember to correct it quickly.
Use TV and mobile phone to coax the baby to kill time.
Old people are not as physically strong as young people, and they are prone to fatigue when taking care of babies. The more so, when the old man is upset, the more he will tell the baby: "watch TV by yourself, play with your mobile phone by yourself, and let grandma have a rest."
The old man mistakenly thinks that taking care of the baby is "mixing time."
In this way, when children spend their childhood in front of the TV, their attention will be impaired and their interest in learning may be reduced. Especially children who are addicted to mobile phones may be addicted to games and even suffer from myopia.
Ma Bao must stop grandma from taking care of the baby like this as soon as possible, otherwise it will be bad for the baby.
Buy candy for the baby.
Some grandmothers just make their babies happy and often ignore some key points.
For example, children love candy, and grandma who loves babies can't stand the grinding of children, and will buy candy bars for children according to their situation.
As a result, the more children eat, the more addicted they become. At an early age, I was full of cavities and my teeth were very unhealthy. This method of hurting the baby is actually harmful to the baby.
Grandma is kind and the world can learn from her. Unfortunately, it's harmful to babies, so it's easier to argue with Ma Bao.
Some grandmothers are stubborn in taking care of their children, but some clever grandmothers keep pace with the times and take care of their children with science to accompany their younger generation to grow up.
"Smart Grandma" has a hot way to bring a baby, saying that the elderly can't bring a baby? Grandma pulled it back!
The video of an old woman with a baby is on fire!
Grandma is playing at home with her grandson. Although she was indoors, she found two sticks, one for each grandson. Then, two people put the stick on the ground and give up at the same time. Whoever can catch the stick accurately will win!
The game is simple, but it can exercise children's concentration. Only when the child's attention is highly concentrated can he hold the stick again after letting go and before the stick falls to the ground.
"Smart Grandma" is very popular. They are very good at using these two skills to raise children:
The use of "props" in the baby's room
The indoor area is limited, and there are many kinds of toys, so the baby will get tired of playing. Clever grandma has a way, especially using indoor props. For example, the dishes in the kitchen will become smart grandma's music box. Chopsticks knock on the bowl, and a clever grandmother will fully stimulate children's interest in new music.
2. Take care of children with books
Smart grandma has long known the benefits of "early education". She will take the baby to read picture books, read fairy tales, accompany the child to read pictures and talk, train the child's oral expression ability and exercise his thinking ability.
These are places that ordinary grandmothers may not realize, but smart grandmothers know how to keep pace with the times, so that babies can stay inside by going up a flight of stairs at the starting line, not losing to those babies brought out by hard parents.
An excellent baby needs not only excellent parents, but also an excellent "smart grandmother"!
Does your mother-in-law help with the baby? What is her way of taking care of the baby?