As parents, we certainly hope that our children will not be too introverted, but some children are naturally introverted. How can parents make their children more extroverted?
Give children enough love, security and recognition: some introverts are born, and some are influenced by the external environment, especially the family environment, such as those left-behind children who lack parental care since childhood, those children from single-parent families, and some parents who are too strict and authoritarian, never trust and recognize their children ... These will lead to children lacking love and security, becoming inferior and being too introverted in interpersonal communication. Therefore, parents should give their children enough love and security from an early age, establish an equal and healthy relationship with their children, leave them alone, don't care too much, and don't be too authoritarian. Improve children's language ability: Language ability is a very important ability in interpersonal communication, so how to improve children's language expression ability? Parents usually chat with their children and encourage them to speak their minds boldly; At the same time, encourage children to read more books and improve their language reserve ability. Encourage children to make more friends: on the one hand, parents can take the initiative to help their children establish a peer group, such as relatives' children and girlfriends' children, and encourage children to play more with their peers; On the other hand, parents should not be too strict in interpersonal communication. For example, some parents don't allow their children to play with their classmates after school, which is actually incorrect. Children must be encouraged to have more contact with their peers. Only in this way can we promote their healthy growth. Finally, parents should also accept their children's introversion. Psychologically speaking, people's temperament can be divided into four types: choleric (excited), sanguine (active), mucinous (quiet) and depressed (depressed).
Among them, mucus and depression are very introverted, withdrawn and unsociable. This temperament is innate, so some people are naturally introverted. Parents should accept this temperament of their children. After all, introversion also has its advantages, such as introversion. People are more cautious and rational, more focused, and better at thinking and finding problems.