1, about children

How many children are you going to have? Do we have enough parenting knowledge to raise a baby?

2. Are there sufficient economic conditions?

Waiting for labor: choose public hospital or private hospital; Confinement: Is it better to confinement at home or confinement center? Is grandma helping to communicate or grandma helping to communicate?

Baby just needs: milk powder, diapers, baby lathe fence, etc. How to buy?

Education expenditure: early education institutions, public or private kindergartens, how to plan these expenditures after the baby goes to the interest class! Sort out the current financial situation and confirm whether it has mature economic conditions.

3. Do boys and girls have preferences?

Do you value the men and women in your family? If you are biased towards men and women, please write a note to communicate. Can you explore scientific parenting methods with me?

4. Can you accept the change of family role?

When you are pregnant, you need to quit smoking and drinking, don't stay up late, be tolerant, I need you to take care of the baby, don't miss the baby's growth, bathe the baby, change diapers, get up three times a night and help breast-feed ... Can these be done ideologically and psychologically? Are you ready to be a father?

5. How to divide the work with children?

Who takes care of the children? How to balance our small family and children in the workplace should be discussed carefully.

6. About work

Can you face my income after pregnancy with peace of mind? If I become a full-time mother, can you understand my hard work, can you face up to my value and understand my difficulties?

7. I have problems with your parents. Who is in charge of how to deal with the right to raise children? I have differences with your parents about how to solve this problem. I need you to effectively coordinate the relationship between the two sides and take care of my emotions. Will you be on our side? ...

8, confinement postpartum recovery

You need to ask for a new moon or go to the moon center after childbirth. After giving birth, the body will recover. This may lead to some expenses and great changes in my life. Can you face it? Being occupied by children in spare time may affect whether you are psychologically prepared for the intimate relationship between the two sexes. How to solve the problem that my postpartum figure is out of shape, my face is spotted and my mood changes greatly, can you tolerate and understand it?