Parents should fully trust the education in kindergartens to relieve their children's anxiety. Parents should talk to their children about going to kindergarten and tell them that when the baby grows up, he or she will go to kindergarten, where there are teachers, toys, children and many interesting things. In order to stimulate children's desire to go to kindergarten.
Children will definitely go through an adaptation period when they first arrive in kindergarten. Some children are happy on the first day, but they cry and don't want to go to school on the second or third day. In fact, this is a natural phenomenon. The baby is fresh on the first day. When he "reacts" to a strange environment in the next few days, he will definitely cry. At this time, parents should try not to speculate too much, but try to believe in kindergartens and show their love for kindergartens in front of their children, so that children will gradually like kindergartens and teachers.
Step 2 prepare for life
Every child's living habits are different. When he comes to a completely unfamiliar environment and a strange group, he will definitely feel uncomfortable, so we give the children a time to adapt, allowing them to cry and make trouble. But the principle will never give in, such as observing the kindergarten schedule and letting children know the sense of rules.
Don't give children a bad check. Some parents say I'll pick you up when you go later, and I'll pick you up first for fear that the child will cry. Pick up the children on time and don't keep them waiting, which will aggravate their fears.
First of all, parents should let their children learn to eat and go to the toilet at home, and they should take care of the hygiene after urinating and lifting their pants. It is urgent for children to learn to serve themselves. Some children are not good at expressing themselves, and they are not confident if they do something badly. You should also tell your children that when they are in trouble, they can ask the teacher for help. The kindergarten teacher is your mother.
Second, teach children to communicate. If they have friends, they will not be lonely, and they will gradually like coming to kindergarten. According to my experience, I think that in the first month of entering the park, the first problem should be to stimulate children's desire to speak. Most children who have just entered the park are reluctant to associate with others, except for a few who are particularly extroverted.
Thirdly, always cut your child's nails to avoid scratching other children. The characteristics of children in kindergartens and small classes, when encountering disputes, generally use "violence" to solve the problem, and it often happens in an instant. When children have conflicts, such as hitting, biting and arresting people, parents should educate their children not to hit people, not to scold other children, and solve the problem through teachers.
3. Teach children to take care of themselves.
If you drink water, go to the toilet, wear shoes, wear socks, move a small chair, and know your name, children will adapt to kindergarten more quickly after learning these skills, reducing the phenomenon that children cry because they are not adapted.
4. Preparation for the first day
Parents' words and deeds have a great influence on their children. If parents also accompany their children to wipe their tears, it will only aggravate their fears and make crying more serious. As a parent, you tell your child as soon as you get up in the morning that you are going to kindergarten today, staying in kindergarten for one day, eating by yourself, sleeping by yourself, and many children to play with you. Mom will pick you up after work at night and talk more about encouraging children. On the first day of kindergarten, children have a little breakfast at home and put on comfortable clothes and shoes.