Finalized: Ouyang Biwen

I believe that many parents are anxious to raise their children, hoping that their children will have a happy childhood, and they don't want their children to lose at the starting line of life and come back to complain about themselves later.

Many parents are also entangled in whether their children's kindergartens should learn the knowledge of primary schools in advance.

Chichiwa, her husband's education is not very high. Although business at home has been very good in recent years, Chichiwa's husband really hopes that their children can study hard. Since the birth of the child, many early education classes have been given to the child.

It is to let children go to elite kindergartens and want them to receive a better education. But what Qian Qian didn't expect was that the kindergarten didn't teach primary school courses, which made Qian Qian very puzzled.

She didn't think this would work, so she signed up a lot of infant promotion and contact classes for her children. Sure enough, her children did well in primary school.

However, in the past two years, Qian Qian was not happy. She found that her children's grades dropped sharply. All the students who are worse than him have surpassed him. After careful inquiry, I found that many children who study in kindergarten in advance have a serious decline in their grades.

1) should study.

A third-grade nanny said that children must learn primary school knowledge in advance, not to mention how advanced it is, but they must also learn it from the first grade.

His son didn't learn at all in kindergarten. After the first grade, the teacher was so demanding that the children didn't participate at all, which made the whole family jump.

And the biggest problem is that even directly affiliated primary schools need interviews, and many interview questions involve the knowledge of primary schools. In other words, if you don't study in advance in kindergarten, you can't even pass the interview.

2) You shouldn't study.

Another parent also shared his experience. When he found a kindergarten for his children, he specially found one who could teach elementary school knowledge in advance. The child did well in primary school.

But perhaps it is because of the good grades that children are complacent and form the habit of not listening carefully in class. However, after the third grade of primary school, the children's previous knowledge has long been used up, and their grades have dropped sharply.

But at this time, the child's habit of not listening carefully has been developed, and it is difficult to correct it.

1) Physiologically

And if you carefully observe the child's handwriting, you will find that the child's handwriting is actually more like imitating painting. Their vertical direction is not from top to bottom, but from bottom to top. Their horizontal direction is not from left to right, but from right to left.

Child psychologists call it "mirror writing", and children are not suitable for writing at this stage.

Premature study will only make children ignore the development of emotional function, leading to lack of emotional, exercise, communication and self-regulation ability, especially unable to control their emotions, which is a contusion to future study.

2) Psychologically speaking

Most children in kindergarten are more interested in playing. If parents force their children to study, they get bored easily.

Even if the child really learns, it is inevitable that he will not be complacent because of his good grades, but after the second and third day of junior high school, his grades will plummet.

Therefore, it is not a waste of time to let children play in kindergartens. It is to help children enhance their self-regulation ability and let them socialize and express better.

Sugar Mom's topic today: Do you think kindergarten children should study in advance?