It's too complicated to come from a family. But we can divide it into three classes economically: good and bad. Born in a good family, you can have as much money as you need, such as Wang Sicong and Ma Yun. Born in a family, you can go to school with plenty of food and clothing, and you can support your children with money. However, there are times when demand cannot be met. Being born in a family has problems in eating, dressing or reading, and children's basic survival problems have challenges. If we only look at material things, are the functions and limitations of personal efforts very simple? It's amazing that a poor family can survive. Although he survived, his height and physique may be limited by malnutrition. At this time, it is up to individuals to compete with their peers. Compared with sports, the requirements are too high. Why not eat meat? Most families are of medium level and can't get everything they want, but their daily life is carefree. At this time, I am obsessed with buying things that I couldn't afford when I was a child. Others can totally criticize one sentence: melodramatic. At this level, the difference of personal efforts is the difference of life, which has little to do with family background. 2, the material is clear, and then look at the spirit. Can be analogized. Ordinary families can be described as: there are no perfect parents. Parents can guarantee their children's basic sense of security, a relatively stable living environment, suppress their children's needs, and it is normal to take their children out as punching bags. As a child, once an adult, personal efforts are very important. Appreciate the good and stay away from the bad. You can't get along with your parents, you can't get along. At least you can leave home, stay away from your parents and live your own life. In fact, no matter what your parents are like, leaving your parents and being independent is the most basic and important thing. You can live without parents. Only in this way can you examine the influence of your parents independently and calmly, and you can choose the way to get along with your parents. Then some people, inseparable from their parents' money and feelings, want their parents to treat themselves in their own way, just greedy for money. Such people love their parents and kill them. I usually feel that I deserve it. Others have neither the right to blame nor the obligation to help. And poor parents may never give their children a stable living environment, and their emotions fluctuate greatly, and they love and hate each other and become extreme. Children have no idea what life is like. Children's daily needs depend on prayer and luck ... so children who grow up in the family can only get rid of their parents by luck. Tell these people that his life depends on his own efforts. Where does his ability come from? I said that the first thing for children is to live independently from their mothers. Why not eat minced meat? Or there is another kind, the parents are just average, but the children are naturally sensitive and fragile. Then I think it's also parents' genes. This is really the responsibility of parents themselves. ...