Do not encourage others.

I believe everyone has heard of this idiom. Farmers want the seedlings to grow faster, better and higher, so they pull them up. On the surface, they seem to grow better than other people's rice fields, but not long after, all the seedlings in the rice fields died. The sooner you give your children enlightenment education, it is like raising seedlings artificially. It seems that they learned more than other children and won at the starting line. In fact,

Arrange children's study and education according to the objective laws of science.

Nowadays, parents pay more and more attention to their children's education, and the word "chicken baby" is also very common. The phenomenon of "chicken baby" is particularly serious in big cities. Children in senior one learn the knowledge of senior two and senior three, and even a holiday is equivalent to going to school in a different place. Various cram schools, heavier schoolbags, and younger children wearing glasses really mean that they have lost the happiness and relaxation they should have in childhood. When did children become a tool for parents to compare? Parents seem to want to impose their ideals and ambitions that they could not achieve when they were young. Children are the continuation of your life, but not your ideal. He is an independent man, not your marionette. You should respect and love him, not let him go the way you imposed on him. Is it difficult to study at the age arranged by the state?

Always pay attention to your child's mental health and don't put too much pressure on him.

In the TV series Xiao Shede, Rulu's role is the representative of Jiwa. Her children have excellent grades and are what many parents call other people's children. But are children really happy? He likes playing football, but his mother strongly opposes this hobby and thinks it is a waste of time. Under various pressures, the child has mental problems and fantasizes about having a small partner to play with him. Finally, the child's mother felt very sorry. I hope parents will never wait.

To sum up, I don't think the earliest the better, and any age will do.