At first, I was really resistant and tired of this life around the stove, around the children and around my husband. I also want to go to work with peace of mind like others. When I get home, someone will cook, leaving the children alone to help me pick up and drop off.

The reality is very skinny, except you, and only you.

I've taken many detours, so now I'd like to give my little mother some advice.

First, if you are literate, don't stop learning. If you don't have a diploma, then apply for the adult college entrance examination. Many such institutions spend thousands of dollars to repair a diploma. College is two and a half years. When your children go to school, you will have a diploma. If you have no culture, then I suggest you take a diploma. Maybe after your children go to school, you will have time to take some certificates. For example, teacher qualification certificate, secondary constructor, accounting certificate, etc. , are linked to academic qualifications.

The certificate of this institution in big cities should be more expensive. If you live in the countryside, you can choose to go back to your hometown to take the exam. Generally, our fourth-and fifth-tier cities are all three or four thousand tuition fees.

Second, don't stop learning. In fact, after marriage, we have more freedom to pay for our hobbies. It was after I got married that I discovered that I actually like painting and calligraphy. So I signed up for an online painting course. There was no money at that time, so I spent it. I think it's worth spending. Because I learned it and found that I liked it very much, and I often sat for hours at a time.

My son is watching TV and playing with toys, without disturbing each other. Sometimes he paints watercolors, and he wants to paint them. After all, the child is still very interested in color, so I gave him a piece of paper and a brush to draw casually. At best, I clean up, but you are happy when the children are happy. This is a common problem of all mothers.

Third, many part-time jobs are done at home. For example, I made some packing boxes and wigs, and I also made some welded tubes at home, which cost eighty cents each. Because I can't go out during the epidemic, I probably earned hundreds of dollars. This is suitable for young mothers with low education level, because after forty years old, the cervical spine is a little unbearable. O( _ )O haha ~.

Fourthly, if you are literate and like to write something, then I suggest adding a group on QQ, where there are many groups that write articles and copy things. Just search. I can't write at first, be modest, abandon blx and ask others more. Most people are nice and will tell you what's wrong. And if it is written skillfully in the later period, the expenses will be wonderful. At that time, I received a soft advertisement, 800 words 15 yuan. Although it was not many, it was your first step. I can write 2-3 articles a day at first, and then I can write 7 articles a day, earning 100 yuan.

This is my income from not staying with my children at night and cooking for them at noon after I pick them up. Can I be unhappy if these things don't delay me? After all, I don't have to reach out and beg for food. If you like writing novels and write at home casually, you must set yourself a task, about 5000 words a day. The most important thing is persistence.

Fifth, I want to talk about the income I have earned after studying painting for several years. I started a painting class with a partner and went to class on Saturday and Sunday. Go to class in winter and summer vacation. Each class lasts two hours in the morning and two hours in the afternoon. You can earn about 800 to 1000 a month, because you have long classes in winter and summer vacations, and your income will be a little more. It's not too much. After all, in the fourth and fifth tier cities, wages are already very low, but consumption is also very low.

Sixth, multimedia is also a good way to make money, but because I don't like showing my face, I have never been able to master the tricks. But if you stick to it and find a good direction, it will still be very profitable.

As a treasure mother, we must have a sense of being prepared for danger in times of peace. Maybe when I was young, I thought that my husband could make money anyway, and I was beautiful, and there would be no change. However, life is not what you want, but what he wants you to do. Being with children is the most important thing as a treasure mother, but being able to support yourself is the best example for children.

This is just my own feeling. Maybe some people will do better than me, but I hope all treasure moms will be positive and don't complain. Life is short, so time should be spent doing the right thing, not doing the useless thing. Let's go