Parents are also hard strugglers for their children, hoping to create a better material life for their children.
The most bitter mother became popular and took her baby to the night shift, just trying to give her a better life in the mother group. Seeing such a video made everyone feel deeply. The video is like this. A mother works the night shift, which should be in the factory. Everyone is very busy and the workflow is very tight. Originally, it was working, but it was striking that there was a treasure mother carrying a child.
Ma Bao was still working, only to see the little doll kiss her mother without crying, and then sleep peacefully on her back. The mother's body kept shaking back and forth, but the child was very good and didn't disturb his sleep because of this shaking.
It turns out that this mother is also very helpless. In order to create a better life for children, she can only work so hard.
After watching this video, I can't calm down for a long time. I am also a mother, and I can feel the sadness of Ma Bao in the video. But the baby is only a few months old. Why do you have to take your children to work in the factory?
Many treasure mothers in the mother group also commented, and they all felt that their hearts were not good. Bao Ma really worked hard and understood her.
You shouldn't have children without money. Is that so? A gathering of friends is basically the age of parents. When discussing children's consumption, we all lamented that it is not easy for children to live a better life, but what a child's father said impressed me deeply.
He said: life is already very hard without money and children. Why drag the children to suffer together? If you have no money, don't ruin their happiness.
Although his words made me feel uncomfortable, I also felt that there must be a story behind him.
Sure enough, he talked about his childhood, because his parents had no money, he was discriminated against by his teachers and classmates, and even wanted to buy some good things himself. His parents have no money, which makes him lose his dignity and face. And all this is caused by poor family conditions and no money.
Money is indeed a necessity in life, but correct values are also necessary for children.
It is very important to cultivate a correct view of money: parents set an example and refuse hypocrisy.
For parents, they are their children's first teachers, and strive to cultivate their children to establish a good view of money.
Parents should try not to be hypocritical in their daily life. Some parents, in order to save face, do something beyond expectations without money, which will subtly mislead their children and make their behavior gradually hypocritical.
It is important for parents to do so when children are laughed at by others for money. Don't criticize their children, hold back their emotions, patiently appease their emotions, and slowly reason with them.
2. Money is not the way to get face.
When children reach a certain age and gradually start to have more ideas, no matter whether they have money or not, they should be told to live a good life.
Dignity is to be earned by yourself. Don't be proud if you have money, and you don't need cowardice and inferiority if you have no money. You should live with dignity and self.
A family, for children, the best love is companionship and correct guidance. Although money is the material guarantee of a family, it is more important for children to actively guide and have a correct view of money. No matter what the family conditions are, they must live with dignity and strive for a better life by their own efforts.