The reason for this is the following：

First, the distance between the early education center and home.

It takes our family 40 minutes to drive to the early education center. At that time, when I reported to class, I could say that I had hardly learned anything about parenting. I thought all the other children had entered the school, and my own children could not fall behind.

As a result, I am a novice female driver, and I need my husband to accompany me every morning, so the two adults basically sit all morning.

Second, cultivate children's social skills?

This is also my original intention. Thinking that there are few children in our community, I will take them to the early education center to get in touch with other children and cultivate their social skills.

And the result? There is basically no communication in class, and basically a class is finished according to the teacher's fixed process.

Moreover, children before the age of 3 are basically in the parallel social stage, and each child is immersed in his own world.

Plus two classes a week, the price of 150+RBM, I think it is really not cost-effective.

Second, do parents have the ability to learn?

In fact, early education is all connected, and a parent who is willing to spend time studying can be a great early education teacher.

The early education center is nothing more than children's physical fitness, music and art, just at home.

There are many home-based early education software now. As long as parents are willing, it is very simple to take their children to do early education.

The early education for girls in our family is basically like this:

English: English animation and nursery rhymes. Common items and some simple phrases are told to her every day.

Xiaoyu is now two years old and four months old, and can do some simple things such as riding, washing hands and brushing teeth. Can understand and speak.

In fact, I am very satisfied, because although I passed CET-4 and CET-6, I have been mute in English for so many years, and it is also because I want to enlighten my children in English that I slowly pick up English.

Art: We have a magnetic whiteboard at home. She can draw on it at any time. In addition, I will take her to play with finger painting and other things that are easy to get dirty in the toilet, and the toilet will be clean as soon as it is washed.

There is also a set of small sand hammer, microphone, triangle and other music equipment, which is played casually with music occasionally.

Physical quality: I am a person who likes to take children outdoors. I always feel that fresh air and open environment will be more suitable for children of this age.

Learning in nature also allows children to grow naturally.

Recently, I like to take Xiaoyu to swimming lessons more and more, because I can take her to the big swimming pool when I go swimming, so I don't have to let grandma watch at home. She will be safe in a buoyant swimsuit with floating sleeves. She likes to play in the big swimming pool by herself.

I feel that going to the early education center in physical education class is really not as good as taking children to play freely.

Others: Mathematical thinking?

Today I tried to play a math game with my children. Xiaoyu really doesn't understand the meaning of numbers, haha.

Xiaoyu can count from 1 to 10, but he really doesn't even know what 1 means. Finally, it became a game to exercise fine hand movements.

Taking children to do early education is also a process of constantly understanding children. How much can you learn about your child by giving it to the teacher?

Today, I made a little spider for Xiaoyu with my hair roots. The word spider has been firmly remembered by Xiaoyu.

She likes this toy so much that she has to take her own spider with her when she goes out.

When she got home, she said, "Dad, my spider and I are back ~"

Here, I would like to add the English Enlightenment 2+ comics that I highly recommend:

BBC series animation yakka dee, which is what we have been watching. A video around a common physical word, repeated memory, highly recommended.

The BBC also has Dinopaws, which I think is suitable for a little more English vocabulary accumulation. Sudoku, suitable for mathematics enlightenment; Alphablocks is suitable for children who can learn words and spelling. These can be seen on 3+.

Super simple songs, nursery rhymes, animation, classic nursery rhymes and super beautiful painting style. I think English enlightenment can improve aesthetics, and at the same time, every frame is really like an illustration, which can also be said to be a classic that English enlightenment can't miss.

CocomelonABCkidsTV's classic children's song cartoon, like the SSS series above, has many classic children's songs. I still like SSS, but I think the animation plot is stronger. You can try it and see if the children like it.

These resources, together with picture books, are enough for English enlightenment. After all, 2+ children should limit their daily viewing time and watch it repeatedly to achieve enlightenment.

It suddenly occurred to me that I missed a very important item, the picture book! At first, I followed the recommendation list of the Great God, and I hoarded many books at home, but many books and small fish were lacking in interest. Every child's interests are really different.

This year, I set up an annual card for Bo Bird picture books, and I can borrow 20 books at a time, unlimited times. I find the biggest advantage is that it can help me choose books.

Borrow the books I am interested in, and then see what Xiaoyu is interested in. After returning the book, I will buy back the book that she is very interested in from a certain east or a certain treasure.

Xiaoyu resists brushing her teeth. I often punch in when she brushes her teeth, then wash, go to bed to play some parent-child games and read picture books to sleep.

Before going to bed, she always asks to watch Piggy Page, crying every time, and she is in a particularly bad mood before going to bed. This is to watch cartoons before going to bed, haha.

Therefore, it is recommended that mothers pay attention to some picture book rental platforms, which are good tools for reading and selecting books in large quantities.