Zuo Zhuan lived in seclusion for three years, showing kindness to his children and teaching them the rules and regulations they should abide by.
Love your son more than teach him.
Fang Ming Xiaoru's "doing good deeds" is still. It means to love children but not to neglect education.
Parents' beloved son has a far-reaching influence.
Zhao Ce, the Warring States policy parents love their children and must make long-term plans for them.
Love is not in the way, so it is harmful.
Zi Tongzhi sees a cloud: morality is the right way. Fitness: Exactly. If you don't care about a person morally, you will hurt him.
A gentleman is to his son, loving without face, making without appearance, and guiding with Tao without strength.
A gentleman loves his son, but he doesn't show it on his face. He commands without words and induces without coercion.
2. What are the poems that parents are strict with their children? Kindergarten and family education ● The so-called rule of the country must first rule the world; He can't tutor, and he can't teach others.
"Book of Rites University" Confucianism advocates governing the country and keeping the family in order, and the two are closely related. There is no problem that a person can teach others if his family education is not good. ● In March, go out to live in another palace.
Eyes don't see evil, ears don't listen. The smell of sound is politeness.
Northern Dynasties, Northern Qi Dynasty, Yan Zhitui's "Yan Jiaxun, Godson" female March pregnant, living in other places. They don't look at evil things, don't listen to messy things, and control their speech and diet with courtesy. ● Young life, patented spirit, think again when you grow up; Be sure to teach early and don't miss the opportunity.
Patents of Yan Family Instructions Mianxue by Yan Zhitui in Northern Dynasties: centralization, decentralization: decentralization. This is Yan Zhitui's emphasis on the importance of early education.
● Teaching women is new, teaching babies. In the Northern Dynasties, Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions: Teaching Children" taught his daughter-in-law to get started and his son to be a child.
● The foundation of the world is at home. The foundation of Yue regime in the world lies in home.
Love your son and choose a teacher to teach him. If you love your child, you should choose a teacher to educate him.
Life is a hundred years, based on childhood. Liang Qing Qichao's Theory of Kindergarten Learning has a history of one hundred years, and its achievements are based on his early education.
● A father who is good at teaching children teaches children. Song Linbu's "Xin An Lu" Childhood: Young Children.
Those who are good at educating children must start from an early age. ● The foundation of a strong country lies in raising Mongolia, and the wisdom of children must be smart to be superior.
Cultivation of Shu New Yuefu in central Fujian: education and enlightenment. Low effect, habit is the norm.
Dai's habit, which was formed when he was young, is so natural. Once it becomes a habit, it is not easy to change. It is pointed out here that grasping the education when you are young is extremely important for your future growth.
Low talent, since childhood. Chen Qinghong seeks the preface: Start ● Live frugally and teach your son the right path. The family motto of Zhu Qing White Deer is about being honest with your life and behavior.
Justice: a certain standard of morality, thought and behavior. ● Aiko doctrine.
Zuo Zhuan lived in seclusion for three years, loving children and teaching them the rules and regulations they should abide by. Love your son more than teach him.
Fang Ming Xiaoru's "doing good deeds" is still. It means to love children but not to neglect education.
● Parents love their children deeply. "Warring States Policy Zhao Ce" Parents love their children and should make long-term plans for their children.
Love is not in the way, but it is also harmful. "Learning from each other" says that morality is the right way.
B: Exactly. If you don't care about a person morally, you are hurting him.
A gentleman loves his son but not his face, so that he doesn't love his appearance, and guides him in the Tao but not his strength. "Xunzi Outline" A gentleman loves his son but doesn't show his face. He lives without words, and he is rational without coercion.
● Sages and wise men are also children and grandchildren, aiming high and bullying the city; Advise them to be right, and persuade them to cheat; Expressed as frugality and luxury; Make money by making words. Wise men and people of insight educate their children and grandchildren, always encouraging them to make up their minds, rather than teaching them rhetoric; Advise them to be honest and not to be treacherous; Prove that they are thrifty, not extravagant; Give them a lesson, not a fortune.
● Children have no preconceived ideas, and it is right to guide them not to be frustrated. Ming and Wang's Dream Part I: Ignorance.
Children's ignorance refers to the period when children are ignorant. Today, we might as well teach the boy jujube songs and poems to express his will, guide his behavior and satirize his reading to open his consciousness.
Irony in Wang Ming Shouren's Dream of Justice: Suggestions. ● If you teach this boy today, he will be encouraged, happy and won't enter himself.
Wang Ming Shouren's "main idea of teaching" cannot stop: it will not stop. ● To teach children, the first is to straighten the family, and the second is to choose teachers.
Ming Lu Shi Yi Speculative Records Volume 10: Rectification. ● When children are naive, parents will have wisdom and will have wisdom in the future; Forgiveness corrupts like a man.
Zhang Qing and Lu Xiang's "Xunzi Yu" childlike innocence: adolescence. Future: the future.
● Happiness is not like reading, and peace is not like godson. "Shiqu Yuanzhen" is: the most.
Love must follow its path. Xie Wei County Order Part II and My Brother Mo should pay attention to methods to cherish children.
● There are no virtuous fathers and brothers inside, and there are no strict teachers and friends outside. Few people can succeed. Song's words and deeds: becoming a talent.
If you want to succeed, you must have good fathers and brothers at home and strict teachers and friends outside. ● Godson must take the lead.
Ming Lu Shiyi's Speculative Records (Volume 10) taught his son to take the lead. ● Everyone wants to be good to his son, but his son doesn't know how to teach himself, which is very confusing! Zhang Qing and Lu Xiang "want to learn" people want to teach their children well, but they don't know how to start with me. This is really confusing.
● Children who don't follow the instructions must be educated not to try their best. They are teachers of their fathers and brothers, but when they are self-sufficient, they can't be fully responsible for their children. Zhang Qing Lv Xiang's memorandum 1 rate from: obedience.
Self-seeking: introspection. ● Mothers cheat their sons, and sons don't trust their mothers, not for adults.
"Everything is wrong," said the foreign reserve. "What kind of family education can make a mother cheat her son and his son distrust his mother? Parents are dignified and kind, and children are timid and filial.
Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions: Godson" is magnificent: both awe-inspiring and strict. Kindness: kindness.
Caution: awe and caution. ● People are loyal and filial, and the family is the only one.
The 23rd Biography of Awakening Marriage written by Qing Dynasty should teach people the truth of filial piety and faithfulness, and advocate the rule of propriety, justice and shame. A good mother makes a good son.
A virtuous mother will educate her children to study hard. ● Children and grandchildren are virtuous, don't stay rich; If he is not virtuous, he will complain more.
If the descendants of Fu's "On Latent Husband and Restrain Profit" are talented and virtuous, they don't need much wealth; If they have no talent and virtue, no amount of wealth will attract resentment. ● People who prefer pets, although they want to be thicker, are more troublesome.
In the Northern Dynasties, Yan Zhitui's Family Instructions of Yan Family: Teaching Children favored children. Although it seems to be favorable to them, it actually hurts them more. ● Young people have no medicine to prolong their life, and it is difficult to buy children with thousands of dollars.
Extension of Yuan Dynasty's Revenge Bangzi: Extension. Qing: In ancient times, monarchs were to ministers, elders to younger generations, and friends to couples.
3. Poetry 1. Learn more about children: While parents are busy making a living, they must take time to learn more about children, communicate with children and their teachers, and try to fully grasp their performance in kindergartens and families.
The more you know, the less you misunderstand. In this way, once the child is really disobedient, he will know more about how to guide the child.
2. Absorb educational knowledge: the society is changing, the environment for children to grow up is also changing, and the way of education should naturally be continuously improved. As parents, we should be duty-bound to actively absorb new educational knowledge.
In the traditional way of parenting education, most parents use authority to educate their children, and beating and scolding punishment is an important method of authoritative education. 3. Patiently listen to children: If parents are impatient and aggressive, the most direct response to children who don't listen to discipline is usually swearing.
When parents' minds have been focused on understanding their children's thoughts and trying to help them solve problems, they may find that their children's behaviors are actually excusable and release a lot of negative emotions. 4. Really put down your body: Some parents always like majesty in front of their children and are used to treating their children with the above attitude.
In this regard, I especially suggest that parents really put down their posture and respect their children from the heart, stop talking to their children in a commanding tone and respect their children as adults. Don't always say "no" to children, but give them multiple-choice questions and let them make their own decisions.
5. Reasoning with children: In addition to the usual warnings, parents should also teach their children some truth in actual situations. Let the child have empathy, let him stand in the perspective of others and truly understand how his actions will affect others.
As for the way of reasoning, the depth of explanation can be chosen according to the age of children, especially children can tell stories. 6. Let children experience: If children always don't listen to adults, parents can also let their children "eat their own fruit" on the premise of ensuring safety and no adverse consequences.
Through their own practical experience, children will be able to deeply understand how correct and important their parents' teaching is.
Parents want teachers to be strict with their children, so they have been cultivating their children since ancient times. Without today's training, there will be no success tomorrow. I hope the teacher will make more efforts to strictly discipline. Throughout the ages, there are the following famous sayings: keep strict custody of children;
1, young people don't work hard, and old people are sad.
2, the industry is diligent and barren.
3, an inch of time and an inch of gold, an inch of gold is hard to buy.
4. A gentleman strives for self-improvement.
5. If you are not strong, you are not wise.
6. Green, taken from shine on you; Ice is colder than water for it.
7. Be ambitious.
8. Wan Li is still a neighbor.
9. Where there is a will, there is a way.
10, but if you walk up a flight of stairs, you can broaden your view of 300 miles.
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1, young people don't work hard, and old people are sad. The ancient poem "Long Songs" from Han Yuefu means that when you are young and strong, you will feel sad if you don't work hard, and it is futile to study with white hair.
2, the industry is diligent and barren. From Han Yu's Xue Jie, it means that learning is proficient because of diligence, but it can be abandoned in games and play.
3, an inch of time and an inch of gold, an inch of gold is hard to buy. It means an inch of time and an inch of gold, but an inch of gold can't buy an inch of time. Metaphor time is very precious.
4, Tian Xingjian, the gentleman is constantly striving for self-improvement. From Zhouyi? Fuck? Elephant means that the universe keeps running, and people should follow the example of heaven and earth and move forward forever.
5, ambition is not strong, wisdom can not be achieved. Mozi's? Self-cultivation means that people who are not determined in their ambitions cannot exert their wisdom.
6. Green, taken from shine on you; Ice and water are cooler than water. From Xunzi? "Persuade" means that the apprentice is stronger than the master, and the younger generation is stronger than the predecessors, which has the taste of the waves behind the Yangtze River pushing the waves before.
7. Be ambitious. From Zhuge Liang's book Exogenous Commandments, it means that people should have lofty aspirations.
Her husband is ambitious, but Wan Li is still close to her neighbors. From Cao Zhi's "Give a White Horse to Wang Biao", it means that a gentleman is ambitious in the four seas, even though he is separated from Wan Li, he seems to be around.
9. Where there is a will, there is a way. From the later Han Dynasty? Geng Chuan means that ambitious people will succeed in doing things in the end.
10, but if you walk up a flight of stairs, you can broaden your view of 300 miles. From Wang Zhihuan's In the Lodge of Herons, it means that if you want to see the scenery thousands of miles away, you must climb to a higher level.
5. Poems about the influence of parents on children's education. Life is young and spirit is patented. Think about it when you grow up. Don't miss the opportunity of early education. Patents of Yan Family Instructions Mianxue by Yan Zhitui in Northern Dynasties: centralization, decentralization: decentralization. This is the importance of early education emphasized by Yan Zhitui. ● When you first arrive, teach your wife and your baby. In Yan Zhitui's book "Family Instructions for Yan Family" in the Northern Dynasties, it is best to teach the daughter-in-law from the beginning and teach the son well as a child. Choose a teacher and teach him. If you love your child, you should choose a teacher to educate him. ● After a hundred years of life, learn from an early age. Liang Qing Qichao's On Childhood Learning for one hundred years, your achievements are based on the education you received in your childhood. ● A father is good at teaching children, and you should also teach children. Song Linbu is a child: a child. Only in this way can we surpass others. Cultivation of New Yuefu in Shu and Min: Education and Enlightenment. ● Less becomes nature, and you are used to a complete set of roads. The habit formed in the book "Li Ji Fu Bao" is just like nature. Once it becomes a habit, it is not easy to change. It is pointed out here that education at a young age is extremely important for future growth.
6. The saying that mothers discipline their children describes the motto of maternal love. 1 Gonchard's famous saying: Motherly love never dries up.
This shows that maternal love is very great and will always be with us. Lao She said: Losing a loving mother is like putting a flower in a bottle. Although there is still color and fragrance, it has lost its roots.
I think this sentence shows that loving mother is as important to a person as roots are to flowers. All the glory and pride in the world come from mothers.
(Gorky) Motherly love is a huge flame. (romain rolland) There is one of the most beautiful voices in the world, and that is the mother's call.
(Dante) A loving mother's arm is made of love. How can a child not be sweet when sleeping in it? (Hugo) The sweetest word that seven people can say on their lips is mom, and the best call is "mom". (Ji Bolun) Motherly love is the greatest power in the world.
When you succeed, everyone is your friend. But only mother-she is a partner in failure.
(Zheng Zhenduo) 10 How intense, selfish and fanatical maternal love is that it occupies our whole mind. (Duncan) 1 1 How similar mothers all over the world are! Their hearts are always the same.
Every mother has a very pure heart. (Whitman) 12 All the glory and pride in the world come from mothers.
(Gorky) 13 One of the most beautiful things in life is maternal love, which is selfless love, and morality is dwarfed by it. (Japan) 14 Mom, where you are, it is the happiest place (UK) 15 Motherly love is the greatest force in the world (Mill) 16 Everything else in the world is fake and empty, and only the mother is real, eternal and immortal.
(India) 17 in memory of mother! Dearest lover, you are all my happiness and friendship. (France) 18 how intense, selfish and fanatical maternal love is, it occupies our whole mind (Duncan) 19 In the child's mouth and heart, the mother is God.
(Britain) 20 Motherly love is the most beautiful among human emotions, because it is not mixed with the heart of fate (France) 2 1 Women are fragile, but mothers are strong (France) 22 Without the help of selfless maternal love, children's hearts will be a desert. (UK).
7. What are the poems about education? 1. "Teacher's Theory"
Tang dynasty: Han Yu
Ancient scholars must have teachers. Teacher, so preach and teach to solve doubts. People are not born knowing, who can have no doubt? If you are confused and don't follow the teacher, you will be confused and you will never understand. Before I was born, I studied Tao before I was born, so I learned from Tao. After I was born, I studied Taoism first, so I studied Taoism. I am a teacher, and I don't know that years were born in me. Therefore, there is no nobility, no inferiority, no length, no shortage, and the existence of Tao and the existence of teachers.
2. "Far Teacher"
Tang Dynasty: Bai Juyi
East palace white bastard, South Temple Zen master.
Seeing each other in the distance, there is nothing in my heart.
3. "Lin Qinnan respects teachers"
Qing dynasty: anonymous
When Lin Shu was six or seven years old, he studied with his teacher. The teacher is poor, and cooking is not a meal. Uncle Lin knew, so he hurried home, filled his socks, filled them and gave them to the teacher. The teacher was very angry and said that he stole it, but he refused to accept it. Uncle Lin came back to tell his mother, and her mother smiled and said, "This is certainly a good idea, but is this the way for students to give gifts to their teachers?" ? "Then let a person ready, Lin Shuduan went to the private school with a meal, and the teacher accepted it.
4. Message to Meng Haoran
Tang Dynasty: Li Bai
Master, I cheer you from the bottom of my heart. Your fame has risen to the sky.
In the rosy youth, you gave up the importance of hats and chariots and chose pine trees and clouds; Now whitehead.
Drunk moon, sage of dreams, bewitched by flowers, you turned a deaf ear to the emperor.
Gaoshan, how I long to reach you, that's all.
Step 5 ask and say
Qing Dynasty: Liu Kai
Confucius is not ashamed to ask questions. The ancients regarded asking questions as a virtue, but did not think it was shameful. It is a shame for later generations of gentlemen to argue without asking, but those who are deeply ashamed by the ancients, what later generations have done, are too much, and mourn for their husbands!
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