When I was a child, I never understood why adults lost their dignity and self-esteem for five buckets of rice. But the moment we stepped into the adult world, we found that in order to make a living and protect the people, we had to give up our so-called dignity and drag our tired bodies forward.

What are the helplessness and sadness of adults? 1, working pressure

The biggest problem facing adults is that there are millions of college graduates in China every year, among which, except for a few famous universities, other graduates are facing great employment pressure.

At school, there are parents' protection fees and living expenses every month. As soon as I graduated, I was under pressure to support myself. I think I have experienced the helplessness of finding a job. We can also often see the social news that Peking University graduates set up stalls to sell watermelons and graduate students run for takeout. Many people continue to study and research after graduation, partly because they don't want to face the pressure from society.

2, high housing prices, high housing prices

In particular, housing prices are ridiculously high, and it is very difficult to buy a house without family resources. Housing, bride price and marriage have also become difficult. There is no room, not to mention children studying in the future. But now few people can afford to buy a house with wages.

You might say that rich people don't have this helplessness. Actually, it's the same. If you have money, you will want to buy a bigger house and a school district. Because there will always be a better school district and people with more money than you.

3, there are old people on the top and small people on the bottom.

With the aging of relatives, it is inevitable that there will be some minor health problems. When they are sick, they need money to see a doctor. Some medicines are very expensive. In recent years, with the improvement of social security, the cost of medical treatment should continue to decrease.

There are children, from the birth of children, milk powder, diapers, early education, training courses and so on. And now the involution is so serious that other children are in the training class. If they don't catch up, they will fall behind, and sometimes they will be caught up. Children eat and drink for free, and most of them are educating.

It's not about money. There are problems at home, and it takes a lot of time. If you are an office worker, it is difficult to take care of everything, and your work is bound to be affected. The cost is high and the income is affected, so it's hard not to be anxious.

I think the biggest sorrow is that there is no end in sight.

With the solidification of the class, more and more people can't see hope and feel that it will be like this all their lives. This state is the most helpless, leading to a lack of vitality and motivation.

I'm so busy every day that I don't know what I'm doing. I just want to solve my life. Without love, there is no hope and there is an unpredictable future.

The collapse of adults, perhaps in a flash, is still joking with others, and the next second of turning around is endless loneliness and helplessness.

There is an electric car on Jieyang Bridge with a driver's license and slippers on it, and the owner doesn't know where to go. After the incident, the rescue team quickly rushed to the scene to rescue, and a * * * dispatched boats 16 times, more than 80 times. According to the documents left at the scene, the drowning man was a 36-year-old man. After nearly two days of search and rescue work, the man's body was found on the river and then salvaged ashore. A young life has just left.

I don't know what kind of difficulties he met, but he chose this way to solve the problem.

There are always moments of powerlessness in a person's life, and this powerlessness makes people burst into tears.

When this sense of powerlessness comes, remember that life is the most important thing. There is no obstacle in life, and there will be a way in the end.

Among the thousands of lights in the city, there is always a person waiting for you under a lamp. The helplessness of adults is that they have a soft spot and responsibilities on their shoulders. They are overwhelmed by these responsibilities and can't straighten up. They gradually understand the hardships of life and become more and more disgraceful.

And our weakness is also our warmest place. Even if we are hurt by life, there are still people waiting for you at home.

Our running around is not only to make our families have a better life, so that children can grow up happily without worrying about life early.

Seeing the smiling faces of my family, I think everything is worth it.

Even if we lose face, so what.

It is these weaknesses that make us brave, let us put on armor and protect the people we want to protect.

Life is not easy, do it and cherish it. No one's life is smooth sailing. When you get over it, you will find that it's actually no big deal. Dry your tears and move on.

When you are tired, stop, have a rest, feel sad and vent your pressure.