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Going to Qiu Lai in summer, the time is willful and leisurely, and it cools down with the fallen leaves again.

This year is the fifth year for Zhang Xiaobei to graduate. Everything seems to have changed in these five years. With the feeling of Xiaobei, college graduation is a watershed. Talk about ideals before, then talk about reality. I used to think that "having my own income after graduation will make me truly free", just like seeing someone "cheat" an online celebrity, I feel that I have been played. The reason why she misses the days of going to college is actually to miss herself who has not been ravaged by reality.

Two months before the National Day, Xiaobei received several news one after another: the iron fan son who had always wanted to play all over the world before marriage only returned to Taiwan Province Province and married himself to a bearded scientific man who was six years older than her; Bai Baihe, who has always said that she wants to save money to go to South Korea to make a low-profile version of Gianna Jun, finally decided to spend the money on the cutting edge-reported the best early education class to her son of 1 year-old; Liu Qiqi, who has been clamoring to quit her job and open a cake shop, will soon be sent by the branch leaders to the branch as an assistant to the president, with the same salary and higher position.

What about Xiao Bei? There is nothing worth sharing to show off the memorabilia of commemorative celebrations, only various minor contradictions in business life. Suppose this week, the company will hold a quiz, and each department will choose one. The director went over and said, "Xiaobei, you can be flexible. Get ready to participate in the competition! " "Xiao Bei, who is rarely valued, instantly felt that the sun came out in the west that day and immediately echoed it. However, the director's second sentence exposed Ya's conspiracy: "What's inside has also been reviewed by our department, so you two should choose one, so you should make good preparations and strive for ..." The following words can be ignored. Yes, no one in the department knows the relationship between Mr. Tang and the director. Only the director's stupid husband is still in the dark to continue her virtuous life.

The director, who is good at performing "fairness" and flaunting fairness, dragged his fat body back to the office after explaining his work. This is not the first time. Whenever the good things of the department are implemented to one person, everyone except Mr. Tang is accompanying the list, which takes time and energy and has to be greeted with a smile. Last year's quiz, Xiaobei spent three days suddenly reciting a black-and-white topic. When he recited them to the director under dark circles, he got nothing but a "good". Mr. Tang, who is simply prepared, can be recommended to the whole company to participate in the competition, and even the scope of surprise review has been narrowed. Even if you finally get the countdown, you can also get the participation prize, with a bonus of 2000 yuan! If all the competitors are Mr. Bitang, who wins the competition opportunities through personal connections, maybe he can "cheat" him to 654.38+00,000 by winning the first prize.

The fact is obvious, but eight people in the department, including Xiao Bei, all chose to compromise when encountering such an incident. There is no way. If you want to gain a place in the workplace and not suffer the pain of compromise, you have to choose another kind of "grievance" like Teacher Tang in exchange for leadership reuse.

02

"You said you were going to live, but why were you wronged?"

"Yes, aren't we all like this?"

Xiao Bei, iron fan childe, Bai Baihe and 677, who finally asked out for afternoon tea, were all eclipsed when they talked about this issue.

"This may be really mature." The low-profile version of Bai Baihe broke the silence first. "I want to go to South Korea to give Gianna Jun a change and come back. For me, that is the realm of living my true self. But later life told me that you have a son and both parents are old. Apart from the problem of money, there is something wrong with plastic surgery, and I will never wake up. What should my parents do? Where's the son? I don't want to see the person who loves me the most in the world become fragmented because of losing me. "

Then, the iron fan took over: "In order to make a compromise, you may fall deeply into this circle next. The bearded science man is six years older than me, and his mother is anxious to have grandchildren. I know it is not easy to meet a man who knows how to care about others. If I really played all over the world before I got married, maybe this fate would have flown long ago. Besides, wouldn't it be better to get married and have children and travel around the world together? " Iron fans know that getting married and having children means that many things are even more impossible to follow one's inclinations. But other people's lives are like this, and this may be the truth of life.

"Live high, who wouldn't want to? We always believe that temporary compromise is for a brighter future, or for one day to be truly qualified to live a good life. " Liu Qiqi, who is about to be promoted to assistant to the president, has a little longing for her future career development, although her salary has not changed. "To tell you the truth, I don't like finance. I work from eight to six every day just to pay off my mortgage with a fixed income and a large provident fund. Others envy my work, and I can only' hehe'. Besides, when I first entered the bank, my dad took a lot of labor costs. I won't compromise. Do it. I am sorry for the price I paid! "

03

I work in an office building made of gray cement and live in a house borrowed from a bank. Every day is faced with the work to be done and the housework to be dealt with. During the year, we should socialize like puppets when we catch up with the New Year Festival. As we all know, the poetry and distance we want are quickly destroyed in the normal state of life in the moment of courage.

It is true that there are very few people living their own lives around Xiaobei, but while they have their own lives, they also lose the happiness defined by most people. Really, there is no such thing as perfection. Maybe you use a temporary "compromise" for the future "live high". I'm afraid that at that time, you, the so-called yourself, will eventually be less uninhibited when you were young and frivolous.

Therefore, if you want to "live a good life", you must first have the courage to get rid of the secular vision and know what you will give up. As long as you can accept it, live a good life while you are young and don't let your future self regret it. Otherwise, you'd better be down-to-earth and compromise in time in life. After all, your "grievance" has at least been "perfected".

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