Now people's living standards are getting higher and higher, so in order not to let their children lose at the starting line, parents sign up their children for various early education classes and parent-child classes. This practice is really well-intentioned, but what are the actual benefits?
Feedback from kindergarten teachers:
Yes, kindergarten teachers are the people who have the most contact with these children outside the family, and they are also the most qualified people to express their feelings.
Children will naturally feel homesick when they step into the campus and leave their parents. Many children are crying and clamoring for it? Looking for mom? 、? Looking for an aunt (nanny)? . Maybe you can rationally say that you should let your children grow up. But as long as you are a teacher, you can definitely feel one of these emotions of children.
This should be the time when TAs are still growing up in the arms of their parents.
Children who send their children to kindergartens and early education centers should pay attention to the following points:
1. At present, the most important thing for children of this age is to play rather than learn.
The state has repeatedly stressed in the Regulations on Kindergarten Management and the Outline that preschool education is aimed at children aged 3-6, and games are the main way of preschool education.
What should be cultivated and guided is children's imagination, not rigid knowledge.
We use a story to illustrate that once a graduate student of child psychology abroad did an experiment. The theme of the experiment was to describe a painting in concise language and ask two groups of children to paint according to what they heard at the same time.
The difference between the two groups of children is whether they have attended early education classes or not.
Two weeks later, the professor asked the children to describe the same picture. What was the result?
The paintings in kindergarten have hardly changed from last time, and the paintings of children who have not attended kindergarten are completely different.
The experimental result is, of course, that the earlier children are exposed to advanced learning, the more easily their imagination and creativity will be damaged.
We need to cultivate children's abilities:
1. Can go to the toilet independently.
2. Ability to eat independently
3. Be able to wear shoes and socks independently
4. The ability to understand some simple instructions
5. Basic communication skills.
Yes, children's independence is very important. As parents, we should gradually bring our children to the independent ability of daily life, instead of blindly instilling spiritual knowledge and ignoring practical ability.
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