Two friends, one thinks the child is too introverted and the other thinks the child is too extroverted. They really want the two babies to be in harmony, as if the best children in their parents' eyes are all other people's children!
In fact, every child has its own particularity, which is their early intellectual development advantage! Both extroversion and introversion are part of a child's potential! Not necessarily talking, the baby is smarter, and the introverted child is worthless!
We have an old saying that children are looked down upon at the age of three, and at the age of seven. The outstanding performance of children when they were young actually contains the great future of children when they grow up. At this time, you need your mother's "eye-catching" to discover your child's strengths and guide him with scientific early education!
Baby's intelligent development now emphasizes diversity! Now it can be roughly divided into eight categories, so quickly test which category your home belongs to, and you will be proud of your baby in an instant!
1, Language Intelligence:
Mainly for the ability of language expression and writing, this little baby likes to write and draw when he was a child, and even the big white wall at home is sacrificed, so that the baby is more likely to become a poet or writer when he grows up!
2. Space intelligence:
Babies are particularly sensitive to space, and they can remember and draw quickly. This kind of baby is more likely to become an architect, sculptor and pilot.
3. Musical intelligence
Babies are particularly sensitive to the beat and rhythm of music. They can repeat a song. Babies like to dance to the rhythm of music and show very pleasant performances, so that they will become composers and singers in the future!
4. Logical mathematics intelligence
Baby has strong abstract ability and strong digital logic. For example, babies can easily remember addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, which is suitable for scientists and mathematicians, and mothers can enlighten mathematical thinking.
5, limb movement intelligence
Good overall coordination, not easy to fall. Suitable for dancers, athletes, surgeons and coaches!
6. Interpersonal intelligence
Such a baby can observe the feelings and thoughts of others, and will take the initiative to comfort other children or organize games. Such children are suitable for diplomats and social activists.
7, personal introspection intelligence:
Such a baby can have a clear understanding of himself and foster strengths and avoid weaknesses in learning.
8. Natural observer intelligence
This baby is suitable for astronomers and meteorologists because of natural phenomena, why there are sun, moon, wind, snow, rain and nature!
Babies can't combine all eight kinds of intelligence, but babies usually have one or two kinds of intelligence that stand out. Parents need to consciously discover the advantages of their children and conduct scientific training and induction.
For children, the focus is on scientific early education, not blindly, on the basis of diversification, learn to be a coach parent and stimulate children's unlimited potential! Teaching according to children's characteristics, not the more classes you sign up for, the better.
1, diversified potential development!
We know that 0-6 years old is the key period of baby's brain development, with about 654.38+000 billion neurons. The brain is the command center of the human body, directing the activities of language, mathematics and memory.
Children's brains run at three times the speed of adults every day, which is also a good time to develop their brains. We know that children can't be partial to subjects, and early education research is like this. We should let children combine activities with activities and experience all kinds of activities. Children should not only play with puzzles, sand and colored mud, but also sing, listen to songs and dance. At the same time, take children outdoors to get close to nature, or go to zoos and museums.
We can encourage children's hobbies, for example, some love painting and some love building blocks. Children should consciously cultivate their diversity, let them play colorful and stimulate their infinite possibilities.
2, 3 years old before the beginning of the enlightenment of Chinese studies.
Nowadays, many parents pay more attention to English enlightenment, but they will ignore Chinese culture enlightenment!
At the age of 2, the child began to be unreasonable. At this time, they can't tell their real needs. They like to cry and make noise as a way of communication, and even get out of control in public! At this time, the appropriate enlightenment of Chinese studies, with China's cultural concept, gives children appropriate rules!
A very important point in the enlightenment of Chinese studies is to read Chinese studies and recite ancient poems.
The 300 Tang poems can be called a mobile map of China, with beautiful artistic conception and countless feelings for home and country! Many children recite many ancient poems before going to kindergarten, but few children understand the meaning. Even if children don't understand, parents should express their meaning, tell stories of ancient poems and interact with children through chanting.
Parents should integrate Chinese classics into parent-child reading, and recommend Chinese classics such as Disciple's Rules, University, The Doctrine of the Mean, Saint Amethyst and Qian Wen Zi, which not only cover history, astronomy, geography, morality and folk customs, but also inherit the rules and norms that children should abide by when they go out, treat others and study.
The enlightenment of Chinese studies can easily cultivate children's solid foundation of Chinese studies; Establish a correct outlook on life and values; Raising children has formed a profound cultural foundation.
Children with strong language expression and writing skills from childhood should be enlightened by Chinese studies, full of poetry and self-promotion, and use Chinese studies to stimulate their unlimited potential. When they grow up, they may be poets, writers, Chinese teachers and so on.
3, 3-5 years old for English enlightenment.
It is now recognized that the best age for English enlightenment is 3-5 years old, and some institutions think that 0-3 years old is more appropriate.
Before the age of 3, children may not even master their mother tongue, and their understanding of words is not very good. At this time, it may be very difficult to carry out English enlightenment.
The mother tongue of children aged 3-5 can communicate with others normally, but it has not yet reached a strong solidified state. At this time, learning through appropriate and interesting English enlightenment books is the golden period for children to learn languages before the age of 8.
With proper methods, both Chinese and English can develop in both directions.
For English enlightenment, there are popular early childhood classes and English learning courses, which are actually aimed at creating an English environment for children.
English enlightenment can be carried out under the age of 3, mainly in bilingual teaching, mainly in parent-child dialogue and picture book reading, which should be flexibly combined with parent-child reading;
Many parents often ignore the enlightenment of children's mathematical logic, thinking that this is a primary school matter!
Before the child is 4 years old, the brain circuit of mathematical logic is basically formed, and early mathematical enlightenment can promote the development of this mathematical logic.
In mathematics enlightenment, classified games are a good method for early mathematics enlightenment. Encourage children to compare and classify things they encounter in life, and let them master some simple and abstract concepts, such as size, length, shape and color, which can stimulate their brain development well.
Older children can play games such as finding differences and walking mazes to inspire their thinking! In fact, children's early concentration training includes the thinking of mathematical enlightenment! Parents can make proper use of training books and adopt maze, connection, numbers and comprehensive training.
Cultivate children's mathematical and spatial logical thinking in all aspects from vision, logic, reasoning and numbers.
Improve children's mathematics and spatial thinking in games. Children who are sensitive to numbers since childhood are likely to become mathematicians, scientists and researchers!
5. Sports enlightenment is essential.
Research shows that exercise can promote the growth of neurons and improve the sensitivity and attention of the brain. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that babies should do abdominal exercise for more than 30 minutes every day, and children should do outdoor exercise for more than 3 hours every day.
Here are two kinds of sports enlightenment recommended!
One is to exercise balance ability, which will stimulate the brain to form new channels and develop its unknown potential. For example, using yoga balls, standing on one foot, etc. And there are more parent-child game interactions!
The other is full-body exercise, such as football, swimming and dancing, which helps to stimulate the potential of the brain.
As for early childhood education, it varies from person to person. Parents should follow the principle of not encouraging their children themselves. On the basis of diversification, it may be very important for children to find their own advantages and carry out targeted training.