Nowadays, many old people are eager to have grandchildren, so many people are urged to get married and have children. I'm not married, and I'm a little pessimistic about marriage. The divorce rate is very high now, so I think the word "condition" not only refers to material aspects, but also includes the happiness index of the family.

From falling in love to getting married, this is two stages, and maybe two people's attitudes towards this relationship will gradually change. Moreover, marriage is the union of two families. After two people get married, not only each other needs to run in, but also the family needs to run in. Therefore, I don't want to have children until all aspects of the relationship are handled. After all, a failed marriage or an uncoordinated marriage is very harmful to children.

My sister's best friend, Xiao, got married the year before last and gave birth to a child last year, but her life is not satisfactory. In the final analysis, it is because she has the best mother-in-law, really the best mother-in-law! During the Spring Festival, the little husband asked her to buy 10 Jin of sea cucumber for her mother-in-law. It stands to reason that this sea cucumber should be shared by two old people, but her husband gave all the sea cucumbers to his mother, or his stepmother and little mother didn't get any.

Little mother-in-law also goes to her house from time to time to sweep the floor and eat little rice, saying that she doesn't know how to be frugal. Xiao's husband's sister always turns around and asks Xiao to buy her delicious food, which is the best in this family. Now I want to divorce my husband, but what about the children?

The other, material conditions, I think at least let the children have food and clothing, and then have children under the condition of ensuring their future education. Basically need to deposit 200 thousand.

Generally speaking, I have higher requirements for family atmosphere, and material conditions are secondary.