In the workplace, parents and children have limited parent-child time, so it is particularly important to spend "efficient" time with their children. The following are some interesting activities for parents and children from different positions to share their parent-child time with you.
Do manual exercises to exercise children's hands-on ability.
"Yan Yan's mother is an eight-to-five bank clerk. She is very busy during the day and has no time to spend with her children. But she pays great attention to the interaction with her daughter after work. " At first, I didn't know how to spend the evening with my baby, so I found some paper to draw with my daughter. Later, I found more and more manual methods: paper-cutting, finger painting, modification of environmental protection materials, scientific experiments and so on. "Xinxin's mother said that after finishing the handicrafts, she would guide the children to tell a short story according to the contents of the handicrafts. She believes that nearly an hour of manual activities in the evening not only enhances the feelings between parents and children, but also exercises her daughter's hands-on ability and oral expression ability.
Outdoor activities increase children's knowledge.
"Tintin's child is 2 years old, lively and cheerful, and is not afraid of life at all. Ding Ding's father said that since the baby 10 month old, his father or mother often rode bicycles to play in the community garden or along the river. " We will take it out at night on weekdays and choose morning or evening on weekends. The baby is very happy outside. We used to introduce him to all kinds of things outside. Now that he is old, he can run around and jump around. When he sees something interesting, he will ask questions. When he sees other children, he will play with them. "Tintin's father believes that outdoor activities can not only make children exercise and increase their knowledge, but also improve their interpersonal skills in interaction with other children.
"Parent-child games enliven the family atmosphere.
"A family of three is locked in the room and there is a fierce" pillow fight "; Arrange all the plastic stools in the house in a long line and walk on them to play the game of "crossing the bridge"; Fold the newspaper into the shape of a toy gun, and the family plays "gun battles" together ... In Didi's home, such lively scenes often appear. Didi's parents often want to play some particularly interesting games with Didi. Dad Didi said that every time they play this kind of sports game, the family can gain a lot of fun. " In addition, through exercise, children consume physical strength and sleep and eat well. "Dad Didi believes that as long as parents have game spirit and creativity and take the initiative to participate, even if they spend a short time with their children, they can make the parent-child relationship very close.
Bedtime stories cultivate children's reading habits
"Teacher Lin's parent-child time is mainly used for parent-child reading. She said that since her daughter was one year old, she would spend half an hour to 1 hour telling her picture book stories every night before going to bed. " When children are younger, I will choose some simple stories to tell them, and I will vividly learn the sounds of various animals to arouse her interest. Now I am four years old. Sometimes when I finish a story, I will ask her some questions to make her think. Sometimes I will ask her to tell a story I have heard, and sometimes I will role-play according to the content in the story. "Ms. Lin said that the various forms of reading methods and reading habits that she adhered to day after day made her daughter more mature in independent learning and independent thinking, and her attention was more concentrated.
In addition to the parent-child activities mentioned above, some parents will plant flowers together, sing and dance together, learn a sport with their children, and even some parents will invite their children into the kitchen to cook dinner and wash dishes and mop the floor together. As long as parents of office workers make full use of various opportunities, they can effectively accompany their children in a limited time.