First of all, I don't recommend go to dali. After you go, you and your husband, parents-in-law will definitely have some problems. You can find a part-time job at home and send your child to an early education center after he 1 year old. Women must still have their own things to do. If they have a job and a career, they won't get together on trivial things and worry themselves. Work can also bring self-confidence, not just being out of touch with society. Have your own circle and keep learning, so as to give your husband a fresh feeling. There will always be secrets for him to explore. Otherwise, you will take care of your children at home all day and study what to cook today and what brand of milk powder diapers is better (not to say that these are not good). Your husband is facing a career every day, and he may be anxious about his performance and KPI, so the level and focus of your chat will be different. If your husband is more positive, you are wrong.