Background and origin:

In today's society, the number of only children is increasing. With the change of environment and family education, children are favored by their elders in all aspects, and their unreasonable demands will always be recognized by their parents, thus developing selfish, withdrawn, overbearing and unsociable behaviors. At home, they have whatever they want, which forms their wayward temper. Once they want to live with their companions, it is not easy to get along with them. If this situation continues, it will directly affect children's future social skills and career. Take the children in this class as an example. Some children are introverted and sit alone all day. Of course, they have no friends. Yes The child is very overbearing, often hitting the child easily, and no children play with him. Without friends, children's childhood will lose its luster. Let me describe what happens when a child plays with other children.

Case description:

When playing corner activities in the morning, the children are scattered in various areas. Suddenly, there was a happy scream from the corner of the building. I thought something had happened, so I ran to see what had happened. It turned out that she and Jiajia were patting the building blocks. At this moment, Jia Jia said loudly, "This is mine. She took my building blocks. " I looked around and found the same building block for Lele, which comforted the quarrel between the two people. After a while, Lele's screams came from the splicing area. I saw that she and Dongdong were fighting for an empty box. When I found Dongdong refused to let go, I waved and hit people. At this moment, I saw several identical empty boxes on the ground. Seeing this situation, I quickly stepped forward to stop her behavior.

Analysis:

For 2-3-year-old children, their living space is their own family, but at home, because of the only child, they have everything they want, becoming emperors and princesses, accustomed to reaching for clothes and making ends meet, thus forming their wayward temper. Once they want to live with their peers, it is not easy for them to communicate and get along with them. Lele is a typical example. In the communication with parents, I learned that children are brought by grandma, so they are more spoiled and have developed a wayward bad temper. And because the elderly are not good at playing with their children, they often let their children watch TV to reduce noise. So Lele went to the kindergarten and saw that there were so many toys in the kindergarten that she didn't have at home. She is very happy. She wants to play this and that, but she doesn't know how to play. Once she found that her companion had a good way to play. She thought it was a good toy, so she went to shoot the toy gun in her companion's hand, even though she already had a toy like her companion. Besides, she doesn't know how to communicate with her children, because she is used to having whatever she wants at home, forming a self-centered hegemony and lacking words to express her thoughts. The little hero in the above case just doesn't know how to express it and can't use it: "time; Times; I'll play with you, okay? " Instead, use a gun directly, which can easily lead to conflicts between her and her children. Because she lacks language communication with her children. In view of the above situation, I have taken the following measures:

1, in the game activities, pay more attention to Lele's movements, let her take the same toys as her companions, guide her to see how her companions play and learn how to play by themselves. At the same time, let her talk to her peers more, communicate more, improve her language skills and know how to communicate with her peers.

2. In free activities, take Lele to play together, let her experience the fun of different games, and at the same time feel the fun of playing with everyone.

In addition, in addition to the hard work of teachers, parents are also an indispensable part in cultivating children's language expression ability. Family education is very important for children's language development, so parents should also attach importance to children's language development education, lay a solid foundation for their future development, spare as much time as possible to play with their children, teach them some ways to play games, and let them feel the fun of playing games together.