Children are the wealth of a family and one of the sources of happiness, but it is not easy to have children and raise them. In the process of taking care of children, there are many heartaches that cannot be shared and can only be borne by one person.
It's really annoying to take care of children alone, even it's difficult to eat and go to the toilet. Because of family factors, I take care of the children after the full moon. The object goes to work early every day, and it is already evening when he comes back. It's really hard to take care of children alone.
My son was very abrasive when he was a child. He always wanted someone to hold him and accompany him. Cry when you don't see anyone. Two people don't have time to cook at noon, and they are afraid that shouting takeaway will affect the children. Eating is really a big problem.
Going to the toilet is also troublesome. Before going to the toilet here, the child began to cry, and sometimes even held it until the child fell asleep.
I haven't slept for a long time, and I even thought I was immortal. I took care of the child by myself until he was almost two years old. In these nearly two years, I didn't feel that I had slept for a while. Every night is a variety of worries, sometimes changing diapers, sometimes feeding milk powder, and sometimes thinking about covering the children with quilts.
The children are asleep during the day, and I have other things to do. I always wake up at night. Although it seems that the sleep time is not short, the quality of sleep is really poor, so that I feel that I can live without sleep.
Although this is only an illusion, it may also be my own pleasure.
Having a baby is really not as simple as I thought. Most people think that children are the source of happiness for the whole family, but only those who really take care of children alone can understand how sad it is to take care of children.
Everything is getting better step by step, and all the sadness is for a better life.