It seems to be a fresh and warm film of pure love, but it also contains rich educational ideas.
Julie and Bryce come from different families, with different family environments and different education.
Julie's family is ordinary, but the family is happy and her parents are reasonable. Little Julie is sunny and lovely, strong and brave, and has her own opinions.
Bryce's family is very rich, but his parents often wear colored glasses and look down on the poor. Children who grow up in a material environment are cowardly, vulgar, selfish, narrow-minded and extremely lacking in spirit.
When these two children meet: Julie's personal charm is revealed bit by bit, Bryce's shortcomings are exposed bit by bit, and finally the boy is attracted by the girl's golden character, and we are deeply fascinated by a girl like Julie.
It can be seen that different parental education will raise children with different personalities and even affect their future life direction.
So, what kind of parents and education will bring up such an excellent child as Julie?
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"Family is a child's first school, and parents are a child's first teacher."
This is the most common educational concept, but unfortunately, parents pay little attention to it.
Parents' words and deeds will have a far-reaching impact on their children. A family with enough love and respect can teach children how to love and respect. If their children have problems, don't blame them, please go back to yourself to find the problems.
How strong is the child's imitation ability?
There is a public service advertisement video, which illustrates this point well:
Parents' words and deeds, every move, children unconsciously accepted everything.
Mothers who love smoking also have cigarette butts in their children's hands;
Dad throws rubbish everywhere, and so do the children;
The boss with racial discrimination said to his employees, "Go back to your hometown", and the boss's son also roared, "Go back to your hometown";
The mother of the "Lu Nv" who was crazy about swearing while driving, her son also raised his middle finger at the car next to him.
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There are also many shocking plots, when the innocent children in the video learn to hit their mothers with their fists like their fathers.
As the saying goes, those who are pro-Zhu Zhechi are pro-Mexico, and it is difficult for parents without self-restraint to raise educated children.
Scott parker, a famous psychologist, once said that in children's minds, parents are their gods, sacred and dignified, and they will naturally accept the way their parents deal with problems.
The child was born with a blank sheet of paper. Whether the content on the paper is good or bad depends entirely on the manners of parents.
As parents, we may seldom care about our words and deeds in front of our children.
I never thought that some of my words and deeds would be firmly remembered by children and have a far-reaching impact on them.
Children are a mirror of parents, and parents can always find the corresponding image in their words and deeds.
On the subway, mother and child each take a book and read it carefully.
Someone asked, "How did you persuade your children to read books instead of playing with all kinds of electronic devices?"
Mother replied, "The children don't listen to us, they imitate us."
Everything parents say and do is affecting their children.
The upbringing of children is hidden in the words and deeds of parents.
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Read an article many years ago.
The author went to a friend's house and saw that his children liked reading books, not only fairy tales, but also a reference book.
He was surprised and asked his parents how they brought him up.
How to cultivate? There is no training at all.
My father is a scholar and my mother is a writer. They love each other and there are many books at home.
Living room, study room, bedroom, children's room and bathroom can be seen everywhere, such as historical philosophy and religion that father likes, social science literature and art that mother likes, and children's obsession with picture books, fables and fairy tales. ...
As long as you want to read, your favorite books are at your fingertips.
When nothing happens, the family get together to read books.
The night is gentle and the lights are gentle. Everyone is immersed in his own humanistic world. When they read happy places, they will talk together.
I also play role-playing, adapt the ending, or write a story of three people, which is full of fun and makes people laugh.
All this is not intentional, parents like it, children like it, naturally do not resist, and do it happily.
Children born to such parents will succeed even if they are unsuccessful. Even if you don't succeed, be an adult.
Only by improving yourself can we improve the genes of the next generation. If you expect your next generation to be "other people's children", please ask yourself first whether you are qualified to be that "other people's mother".
The cause of education lies in the family. Education is rooted in parents.
There is an old saying that "a dragon gives birth to a dragon, a phoenix gives birth to a phoenix, and a mouse's son can make a hole" and "a tiger father has no dog daughter".
Although this is biased by birth theory and fatalism, it also has some truth.
Many times, it is not that children are not worthy and outstanding, but that parents do not set an example.
There is a video on the Internet that explains this view well.
Honesty does not belong to human genes, respect does not exist in our DNA, perseverance does not reproduce in the body like cells, and loyalty does not circulate in the blood.
But many times, these genes are more important than congenital genes and can determine a child's life.
However, the essence of education remains unchanged-poor and rich are not as cultivated as their parents; Combining leniency with severity is not as good as parents setting an example.
Good parents are the wealth of a child's life.
Parents have good intentions, know how to put themselves in the shoes, have deep cultivation in the bone marrow, and come from the depths of the soul, so that their children can be infiltrated by this powerful force and their lives will shine.
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