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What should I do if my child just goes to kindergarten and doesn't adapt?
When children first went to kindergarten, some cried, didn't eat, didn't sleep, some peed their pants, and some woke up at night. This is what we often call entrance anxiety. In this regard, many parents do not understand, thinking that their children have been frightened or wronged in kindergarten. I often hear some parents say, "My children were not like this before, talking and laughing. How did they change so much when they went to kindergarten? Are you afraid? " Some parents have their own anxiety, fidgeting, often go to the kindergarten to inquire, and some even don't send their children to the kindergarten at all. Faced with this state, what should parents do? Correctly treat children's anxiety about entering the park. When you come to a strange environment, everyone will be a little uncomfortable. For example, some people can't sleep on business trips. So are the children. From a familiar family to a completely unfamiliar kindergarten, he doesn't know what will happen here, so he will feel insecure and then feel anxious. This is a normal psychological reaction. As parents, don't make a fuss. After a week or two, the children will feel at home. Of course, because each child has different contact environment and education level since childhood, the length of adaptation is also different, so parents should wait patiently. Don't move a child from home to kindergarten just because he is crying. This is the first step of children's socialization, and it is also a necessary stage for children. If parents take their children home because they are distressed, it will be even more difficult to send them to kindergarten in the future. Because this experience will make the child think that when he cries, his requirements will be met, so the next time he is disappointed, he will cry even more. Children will grow up one day, and parents can't always shelter their children under their wings like hens. Let go when it's time to let go. Trust teachers and cooperate closely with them. Children have just entered kindergarten, and good habits have not been established, especially now that every child is a treasure at home, used to having many toys and not used to sharing them with others. When playing with children, he will take toys with him and hold them in his arms even if he doesn't play. If other children grab toys, he will inevitably get a little hurt sometimes. At this time, most parents will be angry and think that the teacher has not taken good care of them. In fact, it is necessary for children to adapt to the healthy growth of the future society, and parents should face it rationally. After a period of training, children will know not to hit children casually, and this kind of thing will happen less. Of course, this also requires close cooperation between parents and teachers, active communication and education. (Qi Xiaolan)