Do you feel anxious when your child is introverted and afraid to speak? Do you feel uncomfortable when children have few friends? Do children feel helpless when they refuse to express themselves? At present, it is very important to educate children, and their interpersonal skills are the most important. So, how can children have good interpersonal relationships and like them?

Treat children like friends.

Children are shy and quiet, not introverted. He just doesn't know what he's talking about. At this time, parents communicate with their children like friends, slowly enter the child's heart and touch the child's heart, and the child will gradually become shy and like to talk.

Sign up for interest classes that children are interested in.

Parents can look at their children's hobbies and apply for interest classes suitable for their children. Children are more and more interested in communicating with others about their favorite hobbies. Because those are all children who have the same idea. Children communicate with each other in the form of topics. Children gradually become active or prefer to talk.

Encourage children more.

What children lack most when they are most sad and want to give up is the encouragement of their families. Sometimes parents' encouragement is especially helpful to children. This makes children regain their self-confidence. Children are more and more active, and they are particularly sunny and confident in everything they do. We should also encourage them to go home and play. This can not only promote the relationship between classmates, but also enable children to exercise their language skills and listen to how children communicate with others.

Cultivate children's self-confidence

It is important to cultivate self-confidence from an early age. Parents should pay more attention. Don't suppress them when they are young. That will make you feel inferior. On the contrary, we should respect their ideas and let them dare to express themselves. Children who get high marks should be given positive feedback and practical rewards in time, such as lollipops, a piece of chocolate and exquisite notebooks.

Let children participate in more actual combat activities.

Any literal explanation and education, real practice has never been meaningful, and empty talk cannot be compared with reality. Therefore, considering the actual situation of children, parents should encourage their children to participate in practical activities and dare to expose themselves. For example, school parties, community games, shopping center activities, large and small things can be used as opportunities to exercise children.

Don't let children feel pessimistic.

At this time, our parents should pay close attention to their children. If the child is pessimistic, we should guide ourselves in time, guide him in time and pay attention to the child in time. He shouldn't let children feel this way. Because once the child has this feeling, in the later days, in the later life, the child will show this feeling when he meets anything.

To sum up, sometimes, children may choose to escape and not talk because of their bad mood or because of their communication skills. At this time, parents must not be too demanding and cannot assert that their children are so shy. It turns out that the child just doesn't want to talk for the time being, not for personality reasons. If parents say so, children may also think they are introverted and shy.

No matter how children behave, parents' attitude is very important. Don't ask children what they can't do. When children feel fear and fear, they must be guided correctly. If we can find the reason why the child is shy and patiently help him open his heart, she will express it sooner or later. On her growth path, what we should do is to respect the children's choices, give love encouragement and affirmation, and let the children walk slowly.