Reading is difficult. Life without reading is more bitter. I didn't know that reading is a wonderful thing until I was young and ignorant and grew up. Reading is hard. Life without reading is more bitter. Only by suffering from reading can we pave the way for reality. Let's take a look at the feeling that reading is hard and life without reading is more bitter.

Reading is bitter, and life without reading is even more bitter. 1 where is the life lost without reading?

There is a child who hates studying, and his parents feel fine. They can afford it anyway.

I have communicated with my parents many times, but to no avail. The teacher really didn't know what to do, so he turned a blind eye.

As a result, the child finally felt the "fun" of not reading.

He doesn't have to do his homework, he can desert in class, he can hand in blank papers, and no one will even blame him for getting a zero.

But slowly, the child felt something was wrong.

Every time he plays tricks, the teacher really ignores him.

Every time he wants to play with his classmates, they look down on him.

And parents still laugh: play whenever you want and do whatever you want.

In this way, children's grades gradually decline and become timid and inferior.

Because I don't study hard, I am marginalized by the whole class, which not only has obstacles in learning, but also in interpersonal communication.

What will such a child look like when he grows up?

Everyone else can get into a good school, but he can only wander around the street and be an idle punk.

Even if he can find a job and earn three or four thousand yuan a month, he will face unemployment at the age of 30 because he has no knowledge and education.

For the rest of my life, I can't find a job, get married, have enough to eat, and have no house to live and work.

Everyone else is advancing by leaps and bounds, but he has been rushing to the bottom of his life.

So we have repeatedly stressed the importance of reading with children.

I have taken the college entrance examination three times. He said that his purpose is simple, that is, to get rid of the "fear" of staying in the countryside all his life.

"I am in the countryside, and I can see the end at a glance. Even if I try my best, I am just a farmer trapped in the field. "

If you don't study, you will lose even if you don't have a chance to turn over.

Reading may not change your destiny, but not reading will not change your destiny.

Studying hard is your most important responsibility now.

Those who always say "reading is useless" are stupid and naive.

They always feel that no matter how many books they read, they still have to come out to work. It is better to go out early to accumulate experience than to waste time studying.

Until they really give up their studies and go out to travel, they will find that the reality is not as optimistic as they thought.

If you don't know anything, you have to learn everything from scratch. Wherever I go, I get a cold reception and a dirty look. Being a cow and a horse is so tired that I can't even support myself with the money I earn.

Those children who desperately want to go to college have only one idea in their hearts:

If you don't go to school or study, what can you do to fight against people with background and knowledge?

Son, you still don't understand how happy it is to sit comfortably in the classroom and read.

When you are in a classroom with bright windows, the workers on the construction site are suffering from the sun and rain and sweating;

When you learn knowledge easily with a scroll, the clerk is being criticized to tears;

While you can still enjoy the care of your parents and teachers, those poor brothers and sisters are still worried about the next meal.

Son, studying hard now is your greatest blessing.

Mother heard such a passage:

When I was a child, I thought learning was the hardest. I didn't know until I went out to earn money that nothing was easier than studying.

When I was a child, I thought it was useless to study. I didn't know until I went out and hit the south wall that nothing is more useful than learning.

When I was a child, I felt that the college entrance examination was unfair. I didn't know until I went out to travel. That's the real skill.

Study hard, son, and it's your biggest responsibility now.

If you don't study hard, you may not imagine what you will become.

When others are shopping in high-end shopping malls, you can only buy processed products at the stalls;

Others buy fresh food in high-end supermarkets, and you can only buy leftovers in the vegetable market;

When others are enjoying life in the villa, you can only live in the village in the city.

The world is punishing those who don't study hard.

Son, if you don't study hard now, you will be humble and humble all your life.

It is better to gain dignity with sweat than sympathy with tears.

Some people may also question: Aren't there many poor students who become bosses when they grow up?

Son, you are too general.

For example, among 50 children, 10 children study hard and 40 children don't like learning.

When they grow up, five of the first 10 children are promising, and five of the last 40 children are promising.

This creates an illusion that both children who study and children who don't study will succeed.

But is this ratio the same?

A diligent child has a 50% chance of success; Children who don't work hard have a 12.5% chance.

Son, we don't want you to really believe that reading is useless. Do you really think you can make a lot of money without studying?

Maybe you haven't gained a lot, but reading is a long process, and the benefits brought by reading will appear one by one in the long life.

Even if you don't get excellent grades in the future, at least you have a choice compared with those children who don't even read books.

You still have room to choose your job and partner, instead of being forced to make a living or get married.

We hope you are 50% promising, not lucky 12.5%.

Fan Zhongyan, a great writer and politician in the Song Dynasty, was poor when he was a child, but he never gave up studying. He taught future generations to study hard.

His son, Fan Chunren, later became a high official and did many good things for the people.

His grandson, Fan Zhengping, goes to school in the scorching sun every day and travels forty miles back and forth, but no one knows that his father is a big official.

Because of this, Fan Zhongyan's descendants are outstanding, famous and handsome, and passed down from generation to generation.

Reading is the quickest shortcut to success.

Son, you can solve it with sweat now. Don't save it for crying later. Besides, tears can't solve anything.

Reading is to give you one more choice and one more way.

Only reading is the best way in the world.

Once, a dozen college students were pregnant with 50 yuan and lived in a strange city for 10 days.

Some of them are teachers of early education institutions, some are scenic guides, some sell drinks, some distribute leaflets, and some assemble slides.

/kloc-within 0/0 days, everyone helped each other and finally completed the challenge with hard work and persistence.

There are many regrets: "big psychological gap", "body can't hold up" and "salary deduction is not good" ...

Only then did they realize that reading is the easiest thing.

Those who gave up their studies at first moved bricks at the construction site, pressed films at the factory and went home to farm. After many twists and turns, the mixture became worse.

Only then did I regret:

"I thought I had chosen an easy road, and I didn't know that reading was the easiest road until I grew up."

Son, you think it is too hard to study now. It is only because I am young and have little experience that I feel that learning is very painful.

Mom doesn't want to wait until you are slapped by life to regret not studying hard. At that time, it was already late.

Mom, like you, goes to school, reads books, complains that reading is too hard and tired, and wants to give up.

It was not until I came out to work in the society that my mother realized that studying hard would give you everything you want.

At every stage of life, there are different missions.

When you were so young, reading was your most important mission.

Now study hard, study hard and master skills, and you will have rich knowledge as the foundation and skills to use.

What you can achieve in your future life depends on how hard you work now.

Son, I don't want you to follow your mother's old path, so I try my best to let you take the best path.

Don't be deceived by the theory of "reading is useless" again!

The books you are reading now are all paving the way for the future!

Reading is bitter, and life without reading is even more bitter. Reading is more important than games.

Son, studying is hard and playing games is fun, but I'd rather you suffer more now.

It has been reported that in 2009, more than 24 million teenagers in China showed typical symptoms of Internet addiction, of which 6,543,800+0,820 had severe symptoms. At present, there are 90,000 Internet cafes in China, among which 89.4% users play games, and more than half of them are between the ages of 10 and 29.

Many people don't know what ABCD is, but they must know what League of Legends is. Many people don't care about grades, but they must care about whether they are brilliant.

But I want you to remember one thing, son: you pay for the game, but the game won't pay for your life. You pay for reading, and reading will definitely give you unexpected surprises.

Those who can read are lucky, and those who can read are happy. All the knowledge you have learned is the weapon you have. People can start from scratch, but not unarmed!

Reading is a long road, and it will be very tiring if you go on, but you will regret if you don't go.

Opinions are more important than obedience.

Son, no matter what others say, what you think is more important.

Someone in Zhihu asked, "What is a child with a strong mind?"

The most popular answer is: "I can handle the trivial things in my life, I can handle the relationship with my friends, I can handle the problems in my study, and I can make my parents feel particularly at ease."

Such children will choose to obey their own hearts more often. You know, "conformity" is actually a terrible phenomenon.

"Mob" once wrote such a sentence: "When people are in a group, their IQ will be seriously reduced. In order to gain recognition, individuals are willing to abandon right and wrong and exchange IQ for a sense of belonging that makes people feel safe. "

Yes, many people will do this, but children with opinions will not.

So, son, you should always have the freedom and courage to be yourself. Know what you want to say and understand what you want.

Just like the same question: what is snowmelt? Compared with the standard answer "Snow is water", children with opinions will answer "Snow is spring". Is there something wrong?

Interest is more important than grades.

Son, grades are important, but your likes are more important.

Teenagers will like to have fun;

People will like reading when they reach middle age;

When you are old, you will like to taste tea.

People of any age should have their own ambitions.

With hobbies, you can show a person's true temperament; Moreover, grades should not be the only criterion for evaluating a student's quality.

Lessing said: "A curious eye can often see more than he wants to see."

A person who focuses on his hobbies for a long time will naturally be better than others in these aspects. And this is not the meaning of learning?

Son, this is an era of grades, but I care more about whether you love something than grades.

Your interest is your nature; Your love is far from being measured by your grades.

Character is more important than ability.

Children, people with bad character, are definitely not good in society.

Some time ago, Yang, a master engineer in Shanghai, evaded tickets 480 times in more than one year, involving an amount of 20,000 yuan. The news that he was arrested by the Shanghai railway police boarded a hot search.

Netizens have expressed their feelings: poor personality and high academic qualifications are useless.

A person with bad character may pretend to be a modest gentleman, but all the disguises will not last long, and the truth will come out one day.

And people with good character will feel very comfortable when they raise their hands and cast their feet.

We often say: Appreciating a person starts with his face value, respects his talent, fits his personality, lasts longer than kindness, and is loyal to his personality.

Personality is far greater than your ability at any time.

Good ability and good character are the best; Strong ability, poor personality, drug abuse. So son, at any time, you can't lose your character.

Happiness is more important than perfection.

Son, although everyone wants to live a perfect life, the fact is that it is never really perfect.

We should all learn to shake hands with life.

Once upon a time, there was a queen mother who was unhappy because her birthday party, which had been carefully prepared for many years, was temporarily cancelled.

Her maid asked the Queen Mother, "Why is there a bag on the birthday girl's head?"

The queen mother was puzzled, and the servant girl went on to say, "You can live long with a bag on your head! According to my mother, if you can't do something too full, you have to leave some regrets. If you are too full, you will enjoy all the blessings. "

The queen mother suddenly realized: even the birthday girl has a big bag on her head, let alone you and me.

Son, there are shadows in the sun. How can life be perfect?

Happiness lies in contentment, and regret is the normal state of life. I hope you can either try to change or try to accept it. Your happiness is much more important than your pursuit of perfection.

Faith is more important than worship.

Son, I want you to believe something more important than worshipping stars.

Some people say: "This is an era of lack of faith."

Some people say: "This is an era of entertainment to death."

Many people advocate entertainment and worship stars, among which young people undoubtedly account for the vast majority. They care about every concert, every CD, every TV series and even every bit of daily life of the stars.

In contemporary society, idolatry has become the daily life of many people. There is no right or wrong in itself, but son, I hope you have more faith than worship.

People can look up at the stars, but the road ahead should be our direction.

Someone once asked such a question: "What would you do if you were given freedom, talent and youth?"

The answer is: "You must be the salt of the world and the light of the world, just like the name in the book."

Son, you don't have to have such lofty ideals, but you must have poetry and distance.

The process is more important than the result.

Son, the process of life is much more interesting than the result.

Someone said, "Success is a journey, not a destination. The process of doing is far more important than the result. " So is life.

Once upon a time, there was a young man who claimed to see through the world of mortals. He does nothing every day, sitting lazily under the tree in the sun.

A wise man asked him, "Young man, why don't you make money at such a good time?"

The young man said, "It's boring. If you make money, you have to spend it. "

The wise man asked again, "Why don't you get married?"

The young man said, "It's boring. If you can't get it, you have to divorce. "

The wise man said, "Why don't you make friends?"

The young man said, "It's boring. If you make friends, you will turn against each other. "

The wise man gave the young man a rope and said, "why don't you hang yourself?" You have to die anyway. You might as well die now. "

The young man said, "I don't want to die."

The wise man went on to say, "Life is a process, not a result."

Life is like a wonderful book. I believe that people who read it will choose to stop and read each chapter carefully, instead of turning to the end directly and eager to know the ending.

Children, the beauty of life lies in every flower, every scenery and every smile. Stop and enjoy it!

Introspection is more important than obeying the law.

Son, I hope you always look for reasons from yourself instead of asking others.

Mr. Lu Xun once said: "He dissected himself more ruthlessly than others."

People who are good at observing themselves often live higher.

Epicurus, an ancient Greek philosopher, also said, "Recognizing mistakes is the first step to save yourself."

People are bound to make mistakes. There is nothing terrible about making mistakes. The terrible thing is that you don't know how to reflect on yourself and correct your mistakes, so it's easy to lose your true self.

Children, complaining can't solve the problem, but gratitude can; Changing others cannot change the status quo, but changing yourself can.

Look for reasons from yourself in everything, and you can become a better yourself.

Health is more important than work.

Son, there is no job worth fighting for.

A few days ago, 35-year-old Godfrey Tsao died suddenly because of recording a program;

Four years ago, Bella, 33, died of breast cancer;

And Jet Li, who suffered from serious physical exhaustion due to filming, not only suffered a spinal injury, but also got a "national third-class disability certificate" and had to retire.

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The White Paper on the Health Status of Urban White-collar Workers in China shows that the sub-health rate of white-collar workers in China is as high as 76%, and 7 adults are in danger of overwork. The number of sudden deaths exceeds 550,000 every year, and 10000 people are diagnosed with cancer every day. ...

People can have many jobs, but they only have the right to live once. In front of life, son, I hope you will always put health first.

Don't use youth as a bargaining chip, and don't bet your health on tomorrow. Only when you have health can you have everything.

Long-term happiness is more important than temporary entertainment.

Reading is bitter, but life without reading will be more bitter;

Hard work is very tiring, but only at this time can you do your best and have the right to choose in the future;

It's hard to give up a thing or a person, but when the past is over, the future will come.

There are many difficult things in life, but the aftertaste is bitter and sweet.

Son, I hope you have long-term happiness instead of short-term happiness.

Life may not always be what you want, it may be unfair, and bad things may happen. But where you want to go, you can get there as long as you persist.

Reading is bitter, and life without reading is even more bitter. Everyone says that reading is hard, and life without reading is even more cruel.

There was a boy who failed in the college entrance examination in 2008, and he was also a hero in the eyes of many children who didn't like learning. More than ten years have passed, and when I think of the feat of that year, what he said most is "I regret it." He said that if someone advised me, I would never get a zero. Is it true that no one has advised him? I don't think so. I just haven't tasted the bitterness of life. All the advice just goes in one ear and out the other.

In ten years, because he had no education, he had to wander around various factories, did almost all the dirty work and tasted the ups and downs of the world. The unbearable taste can be imagined. Ten years ago, he was high-spirited and ambitious. He must have never thought that ten years later, he would live in a trough. Of course, we are not saying that manual labor is not good. As long as we live by our own efforts, everyone should be proud. Just as a parent, I still can't help telling my children that you will be able to choose the lifestyle you want in the future.

Last year, the news that Huawei hired eight fresh doctoral graduates with an annual salary of one million yuan caused a sensation on the Internet. The minimum annual salary of these students starts at 896,000 and reaches 20 1 000. These children have no background and superior family background, and they are rewriting their own destiny by their own efforts. Therefore, learning is really hard and tiring, but the bitterness of life is the same as that of learning. We always choose life. Reading is the easiest way to change the fate of every child in an ordinary family. To some extent, it represents your hard work, perseverance and spirit of facing difficulties. In fact, everyone who studies hard knows that reading is the easiest way to success in life.