I think we should do our best to educate our children and gain happiness and growth in this process, instead of making it a pressure and burden of life.
First of all, choose what kind of education to let children receive according to their income. My neighbor's husband and wife earn more than 4000 a month. It costs 1800 yuan to send children to private kindergartens for one month in order to get a better education. This makes their life very tense and full of complaints.
I don't think it's necessary at all. Not to mention whether they can get the best education in kindergartens in 1800 yuan. The decline in their quality of life should not be justified, let alone bring happiness.
Secondly, it is necessary to give children an appropriate amount of interest classes and choose what children like and can persist. Otherwise, not only the money is wasted, but also the children will not be happy. My niece is eight years old, and her mother enrolled her in dance classes, painting classes, calligraphy classes, eloquence classes and piano classes. On weekends, she and her mother go to class everywhere without stopping.
These interest classes cost about 2,000 yuan a month, which is her mother's salary for one month. Sometimes two girls are really tired.
Therefore, the investment in children's education should be done according to one's ability, so that education becomes a way to get happiness and growth rather than a burden on a family.