Babies always want their parents to feed them. For some parents, the problem of children's eating has always been a big difficulty in their hearts. Sometimes, they want their children to eat two more meals, and they have to chase them for a long time. So what should the baby do if he always wants his parents to feed him?
The baby always wants his parents to feed him. What should I do? 1 1. Learn to eat by yourself.
Many mothers are always worried that their babies must be fed by their parents at home, and then what should they do when they get to kindergarten? In fact, it is not very difficult. It is to cultivate the baby's ability to eat by himself before going to kindergarten.
If the baby wants to eat by himself, in addition to parents' words and deeds, we must stick to the moral bottom line and not succumb to the baby's bad habit of picky eaters.
Many children can't resist the temptation of snacks, and if their parents don't control them, they will keep eating them. In that case, children who come to restaurants will be partial to food and even refuse to eat staple food. Let the child not want to eat, and let him maintain a certain hunger. It is necessary not to give them snacks in the middle of dinner.
2. Learn to dress yourself.
When the child is two years old, parents can encourage the child to dress himself. Whether children are interested in dressing themselves up or not, you should let them try. You may have unexpected surprises.
Naturally, for most children, it is not easy to finish it successfully for the first time, which requires the correct guidance and assistance of parents. Perhaps you will find that children of this age are just beginning to have their own ideas about what clothes and pants to wear.
When time permits, why not let the children choose their own clothes and pants? Parents should encourage and praise their children once they dress themselves, which can enhance their self-confidence and be more competitive than me.
3. Go to sleep alone
Everyone knows the principle of sleeping in separate beds, but many parents can't implement it because they are worried. First, children are young, they kick mattresses at night, wake up from nightmares, and sleep in separate beds at night is very troublesome.
The second is to sleep in a room alone too early, worrying that children will feel insecure and will not be in close contact with themselves. In particular, children have to breastfeed and eat several times in the evening, each time for nearly half an hour, and every time they wake up, their mothers need to collapse.
The ideal way is to share a room with your parents in infancy, but sleep in a single bed alone. Try to sleep in separate rooms when you are two or four years old.
From a practical point of view, you can also try to sleep separately from your child from the age of three to the age of five.
4. You can go to the toilet in a separate bathroom.
Three-year-old children should learn to gargle themselves, brush their teeth and gargle, wash their faces and go to the toilet. Understand that they should brush their teeth and wash their faces in the morning and stay up late, wash their hands before and after meals, and have the intention to change clothes when their clothes and trousers are dirty.
For children who have just entered kindergarten, going to the toilet may not be completely independent, especially in winter when they wear too many clothes. This is normal, but children can't stand on their own feet immediately. They should immediately explain that they want to go to the toilet and rely on the help of teachers.
5. Learn to get along with others.
Preschool children's babies should know how to be friendly, inclusive, fair and just. When they have differences with friends, they can discuss and discuss with others, and then try to solve the difficulties.
Perhaps, the treatment method is not as comprehensive as that of adults, and they should also be encouraged to integrate into social life and learn to live in harmony with other children.
6. Have good reading habits
Why do people always advocate parent-child reading? It is said that books can support people, which is true. It is not so much that a person has high self-restraint and a strong appreciation of beautiful things as that he has temperament.
In fact, reading articles brings people professional knowledge, which makes a person's words and deeds different. In addition, books can have a large number of knowledge levels, so that children can broaden their minds.
7. Like to think and ask questions
The first step of successful education is to let children form the habit of learning to think. If you find that children have their own intentions and ideas, you can directly start to shape their ability to learn to think.
Improve parent-child reading time, play puzzle games with children, seize all available opportunities in daily life, and correctly guide children's thirst for knowledge. The stronger children's thinking ability, the stronger their curiosity and ability to learn and think.
What if the baby always wants his parents to feed him? I received a message from a parent today, saying that his children have bad eating habits and eat slowly. If they eat by themselves, they are basically half on the table and half on the ground.
So, we always feed it to children. The most terrible thing is that I will go to kindergarten soon in September. When I get to kindergarten, I don't know if I will be hungry, if I will be picky when I eat, and if the teacher will help me feed. A series of questions made the mother very anxious.
In order to let children have a good eating habit in kindergarten, it is particularly important to cultivate their eating habits before entering kindergarten. Before cultivating children's eating habits, as caregivers of children, our parents should first have a scientific feeding concept.
Parents' attitude towards children's eating;
There is a saying that is very vivid: "There is a kind of hunger that makes mom feel hungry and grandma feel hungry." So is the child hungry?
Eating is human instinct. If you are hungry, you have to eat. I don't eat because I'm not hungry (let's put aside factors such as children playing too hard, children deliberately not eating and letting parents feed them). In addition, eating less will not affect the growth and development of children.
According to a survey in the United States, 80% of anorexia and picky eaters are forced to feed their children because their parents think their children are hungry and let them eat by beating and cursing. This mentality problem is the foundation. Parents should let go of this heart in order to better carry out the next work.
The formation of eating habits
1, have a sense of ceremony when eating, with regular quantitative rules:
In kindergarten, eating is an activity with a strong sense of ceremony. Wash your hands before eating, help yourself to food, and even be grateful before eating (in my early education center, children should be grateful.
There is also a children's song: small hands hold tightly, and bugs can't get in. Thank you, mom, dad, teacher and aunt. Let's have lunch. Teacher: Please use it, children. )
Make an appointment with your child for a meal, such as a half-hour meal. If you haven't eaten yet, parents can tell their children: "It's time for dinner, so mom must accept it and wait for the next meal."
If the child is not full, he will definitely ask you for snacks. At this time, parents insisted on not giving it. Come down a few times and the child will know the consequences.
2. Parents should set an example:
Behind every picky child, there will be a picky parent.
If parents themselves are picky about food, they often say that this dish is really unpalatable, that dish is unpalatable, and so on, and that child will dislike certain foods just like parents. Parents, think for yourself, are you picky about food?
3, let children participate in the cooking process:
I believe we all feel this way. No matter how bad the food we cook is, it feels ok. Why? This is because we participated in the competition, which is the result of our own labor and has a sense of accomplishment. The same is true for that child. He can participate in the whole cooking process and eat well.
Chengbao goes to grandpa's house in the country to pick vegetables every week. Obviously, the food he chose is delicious.
We can take our children to the market to buy vegetables, let them choose their own vegetables, and let them participate in the work of choosing vegetables and taking bowls and chopsticks after buying vegetables. Children will definitely like it and will be more interested in eating.
4, a little picky about food, parents don't have to, improve the dining experience:
We found that many parents are worried about their children's unbalanced nutrition and ask them to eat this and that. If they don't eat, they will put on a "picky eater" hat, which will greatly affect their children's dining experience.
In my opinion, parents don't care if they are a little picky about food.
This is another joke. Two children talk: "Why are adults not picky about food?" Another child said, "Of course they are not picky about food, because they buy what they like." Yes, children, like us adults, have food preferences, which is reasonable. Do not force children to eat, and improve their dining experience.
5. Integration of life rules and kindergartens.
You can get the children's kindergarten schedule in advance, so that the family schedule and kindergarten schedule can be gradually integrated. Here, I will give you a "Shanghai Soong Ching Ling Kindergarten Schedule" for your reference. It depends on the timetable of the school where the child will go.
Including but not limited to the above points, parents can implement them well and develop good eating habits. You can certainly do it.
PS: Finally, I will give you a reassurance. My experience tells us that children can quickly adapt to the school diet when they arrive at school, and the school will have many means to cultivate children to form habits, and teachers will give them good guidance. If parents can cooperate, the effect will be very significant.
One more thing, when a group of "little pigs" eat together, the atmosphere is very good, and they all scramble to eat.