Yesterday, Xiao Li confided to a friend, because the neighbor's children born at the same time can walk, but her own baby can't. Her mother-in-law complained that it must be because her mother is too stupid, so the baby born is not as good as others! This made Xiao Li feel very wronged. How can a mother-in-law say that a child has inherited the genes of both parents? Indeed, the baby's IQ is not completely affected by the mother's IQ, and there are many influencing factors!

Whether the nutrition during pregnancy is proper.

Whether the baby born is smart or not is closely related to the nutritional supplement of the pregnant mother. Especially in the first few months of pregnancy, it is a critical period for the development of fetal brain nervous system. If the mother does not supplement the necessary folic acid, DHA and other nutrients, the fetal brain development may not be so smooth, affecting the future IQ performance. Therefore, in addition to some things that should be taboo, pregnant mothers should also pay attention to properly supplementing nutrition according to the time of pregnancy to ensure the normal development of fetal brain and various organs of the body.

Did dad do his duty?

Whether the baby is smart or not is also closely related to the father. First of all, the genetic material in the baby does come from the father and the mother, so it will definitely be influenced by the father. In addition, if dad doesn't pay attention to nutritional supplement and reasonable exercise during pregnancy, or doesn't quit smoking and drinking, it may affect sperm quality and then affect fetal health. Moreover, after the baby is born, it will be very difficult for the mother to take care of the baby and take care of him to eat, drink and sleep normally if the father does not bear the corresponding childcare responsibilities. Other things that promote his growth, such as taking him out to play and early education, will inevitably be lacking. If the baby's body is not stimulated by rich environment during the rapid development period, the brain and body development will not be fully carried out and the intelligence will naturally be affected.

Is the family environment harmonious?

Whether the baby is smart or not is closely related to the family environment. If the mother's family relationship is contradictory during pregnancy and her mood is affected, it will affect the normal development of the fetus. In addition, during the breastfeeding period after the baby is born, if the mother is often angry because of family chores, the quality of milk will also be affected, and the baby's brain development will also be easily affected. In addition, if the family is not harmonious enough, parents will naturally care less about their babies than those who grow up in other happy families, which will affect the establishment of their sense of security. Babies who don't have enough sense of security are timid when exploring their surroundings, which is more difficult for some adults? Stupid? . Therefore, in order to make the baby smart and healthy, parents and family members must create a harmonious family environment.

In short, the baby's IQ is influenced by many factors, including congenital and acquired. This is not just the mother's responsibility. Family members can't just take the baby away? Stupid? It comes down to mom, which will deeply hurt her heart. Family members should take good care of their childcare responsibilities and cooperate with each other to help the baby's IQ development.