Methods/steps
Step 1: Know what to use to make children grow up.
When we go to work as parents and entrust our children to grandparents or nannies, who will the children play with and with? Studies from all over the world have found that not only in China, children spend less and less time playing games with their peers and parents. So where did all the time go? A lot of time is spent on computer, TV and other visual media, and even if children are not exposed to these contents, how can grandparents or nannies give them more supportive help?
In fact, a more creative world encourages rational knowledge and creative thinking, but ironically, children are accepting more and more dogmatic information input. Although the authenticity of a lot of information has changed with the passage of time, children still rarely participate in activities such as games that can rely on exploration to improve the development of various fields. Ordinary children's paradise has a large number of visual media, while educational children's paradise relies on educational equipment to develop children's wisdom. ?
The second step: the influence of information flow screening on parents' parenting style.
The arrival of the information age has brought about many changes in children's learning style, and also profoundly affected parents' parenting style. On the one hand, the impact of a large number of information flows provides parents with a lot of valuable information, so that parents can screen the necessary information in the information flow, thus enhancing their parenting concept and improving their parenting behavior; On the other hand, too much or overloaded information has also brought a lot of troubles to parents, especially in many fields, some seemingly professional but non-professional parenting theories and concepts have been put forward, which has brought a lot of harm to children. Facing the double-sided impact of information, the rapidity and fluidity of knowledge in the information age, and the complex and creative future world, you should seriously consider the change of parenting style caused by this influence.
Step 3: realize the importance of children learning rules in heaven.
In the face of children, the first thing parents should do is to follow the rules. This law is the basic law of children's learning and development. How do children learn? Generally speaking, children learn in two ways, one is direct experience and the other is indirect experience. The former can be understood as the experience provided by parents directly to children, such as children exploring quantitative relations through toys, or exploring sunshine, air and water through outdoor games. Theoretically speaking, this is the unique feature of the stage of perceptual movement that Piaget, a famous psychologist, said, that is, children learn by acting or manipulating objects, which is the most direct and effective way for children. Indirect experience can also be understood as concrete experience here, which is inseparable from the development of language and thinking. This ability is difficult for children to achieve in daily life, but it can be developed in games, such as feeling different professional characteristics through the doll house, understanding other people's intentions, or experiencing the bathing process by bathing their little dolls. This is different from direct experience. Direct experience and indirect experience are inseparable. Smart development park can learn through children's direct exploration and operation of educational equipment, and can also feel the improvement of emotional intelligence through situational experience.
Step 4: How to treat the games in children's paradise and let children grow up happily in play?
It is difficult for parents to give their children full opportunities to explore in the family, and they also lack the time and leisure to accompany their children often, so this brings a blank area to their development. So how can children grow up freely and happily, and at the same time improve their abilities in many aspects such as self-care, language development and emotional communication? This is the game. Games are an indispensable element in children's lives. Through games, children can learn many basic abilities, such as how to express, how to communicate with others, how to better improve their self-care ability and so on. On the surface, the game seems useless. In fact, the game is a preparation. In the process of playing games, you learn many things that others can't teach. Parents generally think that games are not equal to learning, but ignore the important value of games as a learning medium for children. After you accept entertaining, you have a new judgment on children's paradise. Do parents choose an ordinary children's paradise with only entertainment or an educational and cultural wisdom development park?
Conclusion:
How to choose an ordinary children's paradise and an educational children's paradise depends on what you want to use to accompany your children to grow up, and whether you can really let your children learn to improve their own quality while enjoying their childhood.
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Matters needing attention
Children's paradise is different from adult paradise, and its focus should be on children's learning and growth direction.