Secondly, parents can use some methods to alleviate their children's anxiety and shorten this anxiety period. What are the methods?
1, tirelessly say "I love you" to children, and increase their inner security.
In the final analysis, the source of children's anxiety in kindergarten is that they feel nervous, afraid and uncomfortable in a brand-new environment because they are out of the familiar family environment.
Therefore, parents should clearly say to their children, "Mom and Dad love you forever. We send you to kindergarten because you need to experience two different lives, kindergarten and home, know more children, get in touch with more fun games and learn more interesting knowledge when you grow up."
You can also make a clear agreement with your child: you will be on time, where and who will pick him up. In the early stage, mom and dad can satisfy their children, let the people they like pick them up, and give some comfort to their little hearts.
2. Enjoy the pictures sent by the teacher with the children in the evening and praise the life in kindergarten.
When you get home at night, if the child wants to cry because he misses his parents, just hold the child and make him cry. This is a normal emotional vent. My Lord, don't stop it It is good for children to release stress after crying.
Then you can tell your child: "I saw the baby eating or playing games in kindergarten today." The games in kindergarten are really good. There are no car toys at home, but there are many in the kindergarten. " Let children feel that kindergarten is very good from the heart and gradually accept kindergarten life.
If the child cries before going to bed, let you promise that you won't go to kindergarten tomorrow, ok?
At this time, adults should avoid the topic, don't say "no" with their children, and then ask for leave. In this way, three days of fishing and two days of drying nets will never make the transition. You can't lie to your child and say, "Well, I won't go tomorrow, so go to bed." Then send the children to kindergarten the next day. Parents' deception will make children feel more insecure. He will feel that even his parents can't believe what they say, and others can't rest assured, which will also aggravate the child's anxiety.
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