Before the baby is born
Bao mothers should first prepare more baby products and pay attention to a reasonable and healthy diet during pregnancy; Doing reasonable exercise is helpful to smooth production; You can do some healthy prenatal education after 5 months of pregnancy; The most important thing is to keep a good attitude and welcome the arrival of new life with a calm, peaceful and cheerful attitude.
After the baby is born
After the baby is born smoothly, don't be scared by the baby's crying, because a healthy baby will cry several times after birth. After most babies are born, due to physical reasons, there will be some degree of jaundice. After the newborn is born, the baby should be treated regularly for jaundice in the first month. If the conditions do not allow, you can let your baby bask in the sun 15 minutes every day on your balcony, and the effect is similar. Although the newborn baby likes to doze off in the first few months, we can't ignore the attention and exercise of the baby's various organs. Because the newborn's hearing will gradually increase after one week of birth, it is necessary to prepare some baby musical instruments for the baby to stimulate the baby's hearing properly. Babies blink when they hear noise, so treasure moms usually exercise and take notes. Careful Ma Bao will definitely do some training to make the baby better.
Sensory training:
Newborns sometimes have inverted eyelashes at birth, because most of them are newborns, and the baby's eye skin is not well developed (as the saying goes, it doesn't open), although most of them don't need special treatment. But some people often need proper eversion to prevent trichiasis from hardening with age and rubbing the cornea. Although infants and young children have strong corneal repair ability, some people have the bad habit of blinking frequently because of stimulating their children's cornea. But after 2 months, the baby's eyesight improved, and he liked to see places with bright colors, especially warm colors, red and yellow. They like to follow colorful three-dimensional toys with their eyes, hang colorful pictures and toys in the room, and often change positions to attract the baby's attention. Doing this often can promote the baby's visual development.
Two months later, the newborn's vision was not only enhanced, but also his hearing was sensitive. At this time, brightly colored wind chime toys can be placed on the baby's crib. Listening to bedtime music and some nursery rhymes for the baby, the mother must pay more attention to communication with the baby and interact with the baby every day, because the baby is most familiar with her voice and taste and trusts her more. When we are mothers, we can sing children's songs to the baby.
After 2 months, in order to promote children's hearing development, you can listen to more music for your children; Mothers can also hum more children's songs, and sweet melodies can stimulate the development of baby's intelligence. On the other hand, if some precious mothers don't pay attention to these things, the baby may be a little slower than those children who often have companion training.
Intelligence training
The baby will turn over slowly in about 5 months and his expression will change. When mothers interact with their babies, they laugh. Sometimes they can sit up by themselves, and they can make some sounds from their mouths.
Ma Bao can put their brightly colored scarves or toys into a box or plate, and let the baby catch them from it to exercise the baby's hand activities.
When the baby wakes up and interacts with the baby, you can consciously cover the baby with a thin blanket and let the baby kick it away. This can exercise the baby's leg muscles and make the baby stronger.
In short, the baby is the angel of every family. Although there are so many things mentioned above, we should pay attention to them. Many novice mothers should not feel trouble, because careful and loving companionship is very important for the healthy growth of children.
At any stage of a child's growth, the mother's careful care is indispensable. 0-6 years old, not only need extreme care, but also need enough patience.
This period is the child's growth period, and at any stage, it is inseparable from the mother's careful care. 0-6 years old, not only need extreme care, but also need enough patience.
0-2 years old: full of security.
This period is
At any stage of a child's growth, the mother's careful care is indispensable. 0-6 years old, not only need extreme care, but also need enough patience.
At this stage, in addition to the rapid development of children's self-awareness, it is also accompanied by the sensitive period of children's careful observation and order. At this time, children sometimes make us hate our teeth and don't want to hit him.
At this time, we don't need to interfere with him too much, or correct some behaviors that you think are abnormal, because these behaviors may be caused by the arrival of the sensitive period. We pay more attention to children's every move and guide them appropriately.
At this time, the child can understand you a little. We might as well try to cultivate children's interest and standardize their behavior, such as reading picture books with children at night, which can be stories or early English education;
Children can also participate in some housework at home, such as cleaning toys, helping their mothers clean the table, setting cups and so on.
Hello, as a stay-at-home mother, I have summarized the following points:
1, parents must be strict and kind.
It is the combination of strict mother and loving father. In the family, the mother often forces the children to read and write, which is very fierce to the children, but the father is more relaxed with the children, and also buys the golden turtle to tease the cricket for his son.
Relaxation in the family is most suitable for children's development, which is a bit like singing a duet.
When you sing a good COP to your child, you need another adult to sing a good COP to your child, which will make it easier to resolve conflicts and won't make your child feel that adults don't understand themselves and there is no one around to support you.
If the parents of a family are strict, the children will be very nervous, and there is no one to communicate with, which is easy to breed psychological problems.
If a mother puts all her expectations on her son, hoping that he can plan his life according to his own ideas, but can't have his own personal ideas and choices, then in this environment, without a relaxed father to play the role of counseling, his life will be more depressed.
Maybe the result will be particularly good, but children's psychological ability is particularly fragile, and our culture has been relatively depressed. If there are all kinds of rules and systems in the family that restrict the freedom and nature of the child, then the child is likely to be autistic or have other psychological problems.
2, children have children's growth, parents can not plan their children's lives.
As the saying goes, if you are poor, you will change.
Parents want to give all the good things to their children, and they all want their children to live well. I'm just afraid to drop it in my hand, but I'm afraid to melt it in my mouth.
But? What you give is not necessarily what the child wants.
How many children, in order to take care of their parents' emotions, have grown up, afraid to annoy or be angry with their parents, and then take on undue responsibilities and obligations. They matured and understood prematurely, sacrificing some of their childhood fun.
Such parents actually kidnap their children in the name of love, not out of love. Just like some mothers, they always like to say, "You are everything to your mother, and everything your mother does is for you ..."
These maternal loves seem to be particularly noble and great, but what is hidden behind them is that the mother is afraid of being abandoned by her children and afraid of being separated from them. In this way, they will be formed in turn, and children are too young to live without themselves; Children are too young to be taken care of ... in fact, it's not that children are too young, but because they can't live without children and want to take care of them. Such parents have strong separation anxiety, and it is easy to pass on their anxiety and tension to their children.
If you want to know a person, you must first know his hobbies.
There is a saying that if you love someone, you have to know his hobbies.
Perhaps for adults, career is a very important thing, but for children, the companionship of parents is the most important thing, because children only have one childhood, and if they miss it, they will never go back.
For children, if they don't get enough companionship and care in childhood, it will be more difficult after puberty.
The best time for children to discipline is in childhood, not in adolescence.
German philosopher said: Education is a tree shaking another tree, a cloud pushing another cloud, and a soul awakening another soul. Education means that parents wake up a young seed with their own words and deeds, and slowly influence it with their own practical actions, so that it can take root and flourish.
We are not so much educating children as influencing them with words and actions. I hope our children will get better and better in the future!
Is this a solicitation? Such a general question?
Early parenting education should focus on family education, supplemented by institutional education. Advocate the exercise of various senses such as vision, touch, taste and hearing. According to the age, you can use black and white flash cards for visual training and touch the ball for tactile exercise from 0 to 3 months. 4-6 months can turn over and train, and children will feel the space for rotation. 7-9 months to adapt to all kinds of food, hand-grasping training, simple pronunciation practice. 10-1February crawling. Remember to crawl more to facilitate the coordination of perception in the future. 13- 15 Learn the language of standing and stepping. 16- 18 muscle exercise, 19-2 1 insight building. 22-24 Simple interpersonal relationship establishment, preliminary interpersonal communication. 25-30 Establish self-service consciousness. For example, prepare hot towels for children to wash their faces, wear shoes and feed themselves, and establish awareness of cognitive rules for learning 3 1-36 classification concepts.
0 ~ 6 years old is a very important period in children's growth and development. In my opinion, the cultivation of children aged 0 ~ 6 is in the period of laying the foundation for their life. Only when the foundation is laid can children become better in the future!
Now, my Dabao is almost six years old, and I have been a full-time mother for almost six years. Let me share my parenting experience in the past six years.
0 ~ 1 year
This is the infancy of the baby. During this period, my main duty is to take good care of my baby's eating and sleeping, let the children eat and sleep well for a long time, add complementary food reasonably, and exercise some big movements (sitting, climbing, standing, walking, etc. ) and fine movements (grasping, taking things, etc. ), talk to your baby more to promote language development, give your child enough sense of security and establish a correct attachment relationship with your child.
1 ~ 3 years old
This is early childhood. At this stage, children slowly begin to form their own consciousness, start to be naughty, fight against adults, hit people or throw things around, and always say "no" in their mouths. Parents should treat their children's behavior correctly, understand their children and guide them patiently, so that they can successfully pass the first rebellious period in their lives.
At the same time, children in early childhood should learn basic independent living skills, such as eating by themselves and going to the toilet by themselves, and parents should cultivate their children's good living habits.
Accompany children to read and play games, encourage them to explore new things within a safe range, satisfy their curiosity and promote their intellectual development.
Let children have basic self-care ability and good behavior habits, and prepare for children to go to kindergarten.
3 ~ 6 years old
In preschool, children usually spend their time in kindergarten. Language and behavior are developing rapidly, and children's self-awareness is getting stronger and stronger. Parents should learn to respect and trust their children, be good guides in the process of their growth, and keep them on the right track.
Cultivate children's good communication and interpersonal skills, make children more confident, and pay attention to cultivating children's good character.
At the same time, children in this period are enlightened in gender awareness, so parents must make good use of this critical period to educate their children about sex, so that children must protect their privacy and never touch others' privacy.
Adhere to reading with children, there is no limit to the scope of reading books, as long as it can stimulate children's interest in reading, and of course there are healthy books! This is a skill that children should have all their lives. Reading makes people wise, which is very important for children and prepares them for primary school.
Finally, I think children before the age of 6 need to grow up under the care of their parents. Parents must grasp the precious first six years of their children's life, grow up with their children, and cultivate their excellent qualities of independence, self-confidence, sunshine, gratitude, love and self-love. This is what I think is a better way to raise children. As for whether children can learn subject knowledge at this stage, I don't care, because I know that the most important thing in children's life is not only their studies and grades.