First, as long as married, the bride has the right to accept.
No matter how much bride price the man gives the woman before marriage, the woman's family has the right to accept it. Although many women's family conditions are very good now, and their parents receive the bride price directly as a dowry for their daughters, this does not mean that women cannot accept the bride price.
I understand that the bride price is a deposit, and it is the sincerity of the man to the woman. There is no reason to return it unless the marriage is not formed.
Second, there is chastity when a woman marries you.
A woman's chastity is very important. Although today's society emphasizes equality between men and women, there are also premarital couples' behaviors, but it is only legal to get a license.
As a woman, as long as she marries the man, then she belongs to the man's family. If, unfortunately, two people get divorced, it can only show that two people are not suitable, and it does not mean that the bride price must be returned before.
Imagine that a woman's virginity is given to your man. Can a man return her virginity?