I take these two cases out, especially because I have a baby over one year old at home. As a mother, seeing such a child abuse case, my heart is like a needle.
In addition to the teacher abusing children, I saw a video two days ago that my nanny abused children. Nanny is recording with her husband. She felt that the child was too bored to cry, so she blocked the child's mouth with a towel and almost suffocated the child.
Can this nanny file a case for investigation? Or will you be directly expelled from the housekeeping company and then go to someone else's house to take care of your children and continue to abuse them?
Why don't young people want to have children now? Is it just because they are selfish and don't want to take the responsibility of being parents?
Children are left at home, abused by nannies, abused by teachers in nurseries and parent-child parks, and abused by kindergarten teachers. Can our children only be toys for others to vent their violence?
How can we young people have children in such a social environment? How dare you have children?
Some people will say, if you don't trust, you can take care of your children at home without going to work.
I can take care of my children by myself. I can bear the pressure of life and economy such as mortgage, car loan, postpartum depression and mother-in-law relationship for 2-3 years, but I don't want to do it anymore.
In other words, I can have a child, and one child is enough. Please don't give me a second one, I will collapse.
Since the country opened its second child, the entertainment circle seems to have ignited another wave of having children. Everyone is having a baby. Some families have more than one child, and there will be two or three.
I have to say, they have money, and how many people really take care of their children. Either a senior month-old, a senior nanny, or an elder at home is taking care of the children. They are responsible for making money. In Qian Duoduo, the whole family can support them, and children can grow up healthily and receive the highest level of education.
But for us ordinary people, children can't be raised casually.
Since the government has taken advantage of having a second child to alleviate the aging problem, it should reduce the burden on young people and make them dare to have children, such as: maternity allowance, six-month maternity leave by turns for couples, standardized management of nurseries, and rectification of arbitrary charges in early education centers.
Let's see the sincerity of the government to let us have a second child!
It's really sad for us after 90. When we were born, the second child was strictly controlled and there were no brothers or sisters. Say, "Give birth to a good child, and the government will help provide for the elderly. Look at the current prices and housing prices, and fool us into having a second child! Life is so hard!
This year's hit film Wolf Warriors 2 is directed by Jason Wu, who has a son. Iola, his wife, expressed her idea that she didn't want a second child on Weibo: "I love the so-called Wu, and I don't think I can share this love with other children. Even a second child. Wu is the only one who compromises with my impatience, makes a delivery with my career and makes a choice with my circle of friends. 」
That's what I think now. After having children, it's hard for me to accept having a second child. I know that once the second child appears, I will treat Bauer with half my feelings, so it is difficult for me to take care of Dabao completely at this time.
With the feelings between my baby and me now, I really can't accept that I can't be kind to him wholeheartedly. In that case, I will fall apart and collapse.
No matter the social environment or the family environment, I can't have a second child.