See what you want to bring to your children through this topic. If the child is my own child, I believe that besides intellectual information, I also hope to convey some values that I should be correct! I have always insisted on not pretending to know everything about children, but using my imagination to talk nonsense about things I am not sure about. You know, children's creativity will never be weaker than that of adults. Adults convey some vague ideas to children in a narrow ideological framework. What kind of information will the child receive after imaginative imagination? On the contrary, if an adult is an expert in a certain field, for example, you are an excellent composer, and your three-year-old son's name is John, and he asks you how to compose music, but you are biased, afraid that the three-year-old child doesn't know music, and entertain him with some so-called "baby words", so that the music prodigy Mozart can't compose three minuets and an allegro at the age of six. Compared with atheists, God-centered Christians have very different ideas and views on "heaven" and "hell", but in any case, everyone knows what "heaven" and "hell" mean intellectually, right? I believe this is not difficult to explain. But as parents, what do we think children get from this proposition? This is worth discussing. Ask yourself first, what information does the concept of "heaven" and "hell" give us? After living for so long, have we tried to be good people in order to go to heaven after death and never do bad things in order not to go to hell? If not, do you still want to use this lie that you can't even fool yourself to establish good values for your children? I think it's best to give up the idea. If you plan to let your children live in a God-centered religion, and you are not a believer, or you know little about life and death, should parents also participate in religious activities with their children and receive education from experienced members or religious people? If you are not going to instill religious thoughts in your child, simply tell him that some people believe in "heaven" and "hell", some people don't believe it, and some people don't know whether it exists. How great is this? Children usually ask your opinion, so you tell him. Religion is not the only way to make children clear about good and evil, which is beyond the scope of this discussion. In order to avoid digression, I will write a pen (keyboard) for this. 2007-02-0 1 03:52:29 Supplement: Oh! I forgot to tell you, I have been to heaven and hell, and they are not good places! I am still alive. Who says only people who are dying can go to heaven and hell? Clever, do you understand what I'm saying? Supplement: You are absolutely right! How can the dead tell us "heaven" and "hell"? Only strangers can "tell" us about heaven and hell, so how does that person know about heaven and hell? If you are a primitive man with no culture and only brute strength, I am an elder of the clan and respected by everyone. In order to show that I know more than you and can control the clan, I said that I am an angel sent by heaven to rule everyone, and I come from "heaven", which is a wonderful place. If you are good, you can ascend to heaven in the future. If you don't listen, I'll say I'm an angel from heaven. Poor thing, you have to believe it and pass it on to your descendants after thousands of years. Do you think you will do this? 2007-02-016: 20: 33 Supplement: I believe I have explained what "heaven" and "hell" are. As parents or teachers, if you continue to use "things" that you don't believe in, such as ghosts and gods, people who can be psychic, or immortals coming down to earth, and so on. The child is not stupid. Before he learned the correct values of good and evil, you had taught him the ability to lie. When you were a child, you asked your mother how she was born. If your mother replied that you were from a rice cooker, would you believe it? 2007-02-0116: 39: 32 Supplementary: The children asked, "What is heaven?" What is "hell"? How can a dead man tell us whether he went to "heaven" or "hell"? A: "That's a good question! I also want to know the answer. Why don't we find the answer together, don't you think? But before I have an answer, I want to hear your opinion. Children may have many different and unexpected ideas, so you might as well "study" them with him. I just asked a child what he thought of "heaven" and "hell", and his answer was very boring, saying that it was a trick for adults to cheat children.

Reference: personal point of view

Stay on the railway instead of taking the bus. The railway is heaven, and the bus is hell.

Very insightful! !

It may be explained in a more direct and simple way: in legend, heaven is a warm and happy realm, and hell is a dark and painful realm. No one in the world can tell you that he has been to heaven or hell, but someone tells you that he feels in heaven or hell. We can make sentences with heaven and hell, and then we can know how to feel [heaven] or [hell]: [heaven]: Xiaoming has made great progress in his studies because of his hard work. He not only won the academic progress award of the school, but also won a special award from his parents. After playing in Disneyland for a day, Xiao Ming felt as happy as going to heaven. [Hell]: He was sentenced to imprisonment for breaking the law. He felt as if he had fallen into hell and regretted it very much. Sentence-making is one of the ways for teachers to help children understand words, so it is one of the more desirable ways to understand the words "heaven" and "hell" by making sentences. 2007-02-0215: 51:45 supplement: typo correction: [but someone told you] should be changed to [can]. 2007-02-02 23:48: 12 Supplement: Understanding "Heaven" and "Hell" in sentences may have unexpected benefits: when children hear that they want to make sentences, their first reaction may be: "Ah! Do your homework again! ! Hide first ... "Well, you're not tired after driving for a while, wait till you get old. .....

I wonder how old your little friend is. Heaven and hell are both imaginary places.

in fact

We don't know if there are two places. People say

heaven

Hell is ours.

After a long time

Where I'm going.

People say

Good people will go to heaven.

Bad guys go to hell. but

in fact

There are not many absolutely excellent people in the world.

Absolutely terrible. the many

Everything is fine.

But on the other hand, it is not good. You are good at math.

but

My English score is too poor. Please don't teach children to label good people.

Bad guys! otherwise

His vision will be narrow. 2007-02-02 07:09:2 1 supplement: Lying is human nature.

So you don't need to teach children to lie at all. Just like the above also tried to ask the children.

Yes, heaven.

The view of hell

The child replied: this is a trick for adults to cheat children. therefore

My answer is most suitable for explaining to children what heaven is.

What the hell is it? 2007-02-02 22: 13:33 Supplement: Adults often fix certain images on their children.

This will kill the child's imagination. You are a clever boy.

He is an unintelligent child, and so on. If you want to praise children.

You can try to reduce the adjective pile.

You learn arithmetic so fast? . I forgot to say: What I studied was: Children's Psychological Development and Growth (English translation) 2007-02-02 22: 15:05.

This will obliterate the child's development and some personality.

And let the children see the light in a discriminatory way.

Toys were given to the ground (heaven) o I gave candy to the ground (hell)

Heaven wants to know the past life because he wants to know the afterlife. All he has done in his life is to find a quiet place in a nightclub. Please think about it. 2007-02-0120: 51:13 supplement: I am ashamed to see someone talking nonsense with more than 1000 words! Others laugh at me for being crazy, and I laugh at others for watching * * *

If one day little Kenny asks me if heaven and hell are O, it will be very difficult for little Kenny to teach ~ ~ (not funny ~ ~) to return to the question: it is really difficult to explain heaven and hell, because as the questioner said, the dead can't know what they look like, and the dead can't turn around and tell the truth (hold it). If someone has told you that heaven and hell are the same, I will be surprised to marry ~ ~), but think about it carefully and explain what they look like. Personally, if children really talk like this, I believe it's just childlike innocence or curiosity. Instead of focusing too much on describing the environment of heaven and hell, why not introduce the customs of heaven and hell in a relaxed and meaningful way? 1) Introduce heaven (I personally suggest taking angels in fairy tales of all sizes as the blueprint): Children, heaven is a place that many people also like, because there are many angels who like to help others. They wear white robes that will never be dirty, have wings and can fly freely. They like to use all kinds of spells to help good children or fulfill their wishes ~ ~ But you have to, son. Heaven is a place where a good boy can go, and if you are a bad boy, you can go to hell ... 2) Introduce the hell (personally, I think the hell will easily involve religious issues, so my little suggestion is to introduce the comic book "Hell", and now my little one is based on the comic book "The Land of saint seiya"). Hell is a place where bad kids go, where everyone is a chess piece and has no hair. There are no eyes, ears, nose and mouth (just thinking about it can scare children), but there is nothing in hell except a big hole. Everyone will fall into the hole unconsciously, and will keep falling, falling, falling, falling, falling ... endless ... Is it terrible? Just when the child began to be afraid, the parents sent the last sentence: So. You don't have to go to hell if you are good ~ ~ Well, little Kenny has avoided another hurdle, which can satisfy you when you ask questions in many fields. You can not only be little Kenny, but also teach him how to be a man ~ ~ ~

Reference: Little Kenny teaches little Kenny how to be a man.

There are many good angels in heaven.

They will love people; Bad guys go to hell.

It's terrible there.

It's getting dark ... so be a good person and you can go to heaven!

Heaven is where good people go after death, and hell is where bad people go after death. Tell him to be a good man, or he will go to hell!