Children around the age of three have entered the first "rebellious period" in their lives. The little seed of self-awareness on them made them look unruly overnight, like Xiong Haizi who talked back, was naughty and stubborn. For the rebellious baby, the teacher of the early education franchise center suggested that parents should understand, respect and meet the reasonable requirements of their children, instead of adopting a hard-hitting education method. 1. Respect children's wishes. Lin Lin's mother never felt superior to her children. Although Linlin has just turned three years old, he has been given quite a few choices. On the issue of learning Tang poetry, my mother wanted Linlin to learn it, but Linlin categorically said, "I can't recite it", and my mother didn't insist. But Linlin's mother will not indulge her children blindly. Linlin took a fancy to two toys, and refused to go in the mall, but there were already many toys at home, so her mother would let Linlin make up her mind. "Mom's money can only buy a toy, you choose. Or we can buy two, but we can't buy cakes and snacks this week. " Linlin asked for two toys, and wanted to eat cake the next day, but no matter how he made trouble, Linlin's mother refused to give him his favorite strawberry cake for a week. From then on, Linlin will never clamor for anything again. 2, don't blindly reprimand, although the results are not satisfactory, but some of the children's actions are actually out of kindness. For example, children want to help their parents mop the floor, but the mop doesn't work and water spills all over the floor; I wanted to help my mother wash clothes, but I poured all the washing powder into the water. At this time, it is necessary to properly choose early education methods and severely reprimand children, which can easily dampen their enthusiasm and damage their self-esteem. Sensitive children may be introverted, and rebellious children may develop the habit of opposing their parents. 3. Recognize the child's real purpose, challenge high-risk movements, difficult places to walk, and sing against mom and dad. These naughty actions may be just to attract the attention of parents. This is a child telling his parents in another way: I lack your love and attention. Giving children a loving hug, proper praise and affirmation of their little progress can guide them on the right path. For some particularly bad behaviors, such as swearing that children learn unintentionally, parents should treat each other coldly and ignore them. Children will naturally stop insisting when they know that they are bored. Please leave it in 3lian.com/zl/'s for reprint. 4. Be good at finding opportunities for education. A big brother and sister in the community do good deeds and give them to children in time to let them know which behaviors are praised by others; When other children make mistakes, we should also seize the opportunity to educate them and tell them that it is wrong, dangerous or annoying. Facts speak plainer than words. With the reference of behavior, it is easier for children to understand and distinguish right from wrong.