Suddenly 35 years old, I feel that I have reached a certain point in my life. I have to write something to commemorate the milestone in my life.
As the saying goes: you don't know your parents' kindness until you raise a child! I didn't know it was not easy to raise children until I had children.
As a mother of two children and a full-time mother, the biggest feeling in these years is: whether you are a child or a mother, never give up self-growth!
Alas, I, an old mother of two, have the deepest feelings about the struggle history of a mother!
Take a look at my daily schedule first!
In the morning, I am usually woken up by my second child crying, or by my boss crying to change my pajamas and sheets. It's just too amazing and unreal to sleep in! I haven't slept in in the morning for four years. Xiong Haizi has a biological clock that follows the sun.
As long as you start to be a demon at dawn, then you are going to send the boss to kindergarten, then send him away, and then prepare the breakfast for the second child. Day by day, it's time to change diapers, drink milk, drink water, eat again, dirty clothes and wash clothes. Take it out after taking a shower, change clothes, and then shit ... so it's like a top around a child.
Of course, outdoor activities in the sun, early education and enlightenment can not be left behind, as well as reading parent-child picture books, and it is time to prepare dinner for the whole family in a blink of an eye! I wash my face and brush my teeth, even take a shit myself, and I have to wait for the opportunity to interfere with my children. Ah, this day has passed again. What have I done? I went to pick up the boss after school, and the two children were sour and refreshing, which was another fierce operation. I don't know what I'm busy with at the end of the day, but I'm just too busy. So friends often say, what are you busy with? You don't answer the phone, and WeChat doesn't reply. . .
Hehehe, I really don't know what I'm busy with. I'm busy anyway.
I have paid so much, watching my children grow up day by day, but I don't even know what I am busy with. The degree of parenting life is really far beyond your imagination.
I can't help but wonder, God, why is she so awesome? Are these precious mothers all superhuman powers? How do they achieve self-improvement and parenting?
In fact, I have been with such treasure moms for a long time, and we often communicate with them. We find that ordinary treasure moms are very different, but excellent treasure moms win in their growth thinking. After spending a long time with them, I don't want to learn how to get along well with them. ...
And I, an English major graduate, gave birth to two babies in grade eight and four years, learning infantile massage, early education and enlightenment, and baking at West Point. Later, I got a teacher qualification certificate with a big belly, and now I am transforming into a self-media industry. Sometimes I translate the manuscripts of online contacts. Now I am a parenting blogger and run three platforms of self-media. At the same time, the focus of my life is still taking care of the baby, so people often ask me if I am tired enough to have children and raise them.
Well, as for time management, I'm used to making plans and making copies. Here I recommend my artifact: Evernote.
Have you found that your brain is broken after becoming a mother? It's often the same as where your brain is disconnected and you can't connect it!
It is not a legend that the baby has a brain for three years. The trivial thoughts of bringing a baby, no matter how good the daily life is, will inevitably miss an important detail. At this time, you need a notebook where you can write down your thoughts at will.
I strongly recommend this evernote to your precious mothers. Now that I have it, I don't need to bring my brain, and I don't feel stressed. I don't need to worry about what I forgot to do today. From buying an onion to paying utilities on a date, I suddenly got inspiration for writing. I need to write it down immediately, and I will answer questions with the baby in time.
Handwritten accounts, like magic, make my daily life clear and target management simple. Writing down page by page, I recorded the problems I encountered, the road I walked, and all the pains and joys. I like the feeling of being seen in time
How's it going? Are you excited?
Mommy Dida's personal account suggestion:
1. Less is more: the purpose of manual accounting is to manage yourself efficiently in a minimalist way, not flashy. Practicality is the most important. You can classify them in your notes, which are daily purchases, which are parenting experiences and which are to-do items.
Remember and write it down at any time, so that you don't have to think carefully about what I wanted to do yesterday, and then cross out one thing last night, which is particularly fulfilling.
It's time to pull out all your flags one by one,
Being a mother is like what Xiao Shenyang said: once you close your eyes and open them for a lifetime, it's over, ouch ~
A few days ago, it was Youth Day. You should know that the age range of young people is 17-35 years old. I accidentally got stuck at the embarrassing age of 35. If I don't work hard tomorrow, I will be the person I hate most-a middle-aged woman who loves to complain and lose her temper.
Mommy Dida wrote at the end:
My philosophy of life is-as mothers, we should love our children more than ourselves! The stage of women's marriage and childbearing is a process of turning cocoons into butterflies.
Being a mother is rigid, and it is not easy for people to live in the world. May every mother treat herself gently and be treated gently by others!
Happy Mother's Day to everyone!
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