I don't expect to have a second child, because it will cause great economic pressure on myself and my family. If it is not handled well, it will also affect family harmony. Because it is really not easy to raise a child now, everything should be considered. I decided not to have a second child for several reasons:

1. Nowadays, the cost of raising one more child is too high for ordinary families to bear.

Since the baby was born, he has spent on basic expenses such as milk powder, diapers and monthly pregnancy. Some people with better conditions will ask a nanny to help take care of their children, which does not include the cost of entering the early education center and various interest classes. We all hope to provide our children with the best material conditions and education, and we don't want them to lose at the starting line, because we believe that as long as we have them, we will be responsible for them, and these need money to accumulate. Without a certain financial ability, you still can't consider having a second child.

Second, time and energy are also a big expense, which is a bit overwhelming. Whether the family can help is also crucial.

By the time we want to have a second child, we are basically old. Children are noisy when they are young and need more careful care from adults. At this time, we should take care of older children and younger children. Our daily schedule is as tense as a war, and we are so nervous that we can't keep up. We are often exhausted, and our two children are not taken good care of, which often makes us feel guilty and uneasy.

If the husband can help us better, if he doesn't ask questions and chooses to stand by and even think that the child is crying more annoying, then our hearts will be even more wronged. Under such circumstances, family conflicts are frequent and life is even more breathless.

Third, it is also crucial to get the boss's consent and support.

Without the understanding and support of the boss, their hearts will feel that the appearance of their younger brothers and sisters has separated their parents' love, so in the daily process of getting along with their younger brothers and sisters, he will hold a hostile attitude and can't get along well, which will make it difficult for us to become adults and feel guilty because we often can't take care of our big life and mood.