So, what should parents do to keep their children from crying and entering the park? Today, share your child's new cheats to help parents and children desensitize quickly!
First, parents need to understand why their children are crying.
Crying is a concrete manifestation of fear. Generally speaking, children cry because they are afraid. They haven't adapted to the new environment psychologically, and their worries, anxieties and fears turn into behaviors and cries.
Why are children afraid? It is because they are unfamiliar with the kindergarten environment and feel insecure. From the child's point of view, there is an unknown uncle guarding the door, surrounded by unknown children, and there are also strange sisters and aunts who reach out and take me away. The kindergarten is so big, and there are strange playgrounds and strange classrooms everywhere. What children see and hear in a short time is unfamiliar, and naturally they will feel uneasy and afraid.
Therefore, if parents just casually tell their children, "Baby, there are many children playing with you in the kindergarten, and there are many interesting things in the kindergarten ..." and so on, it is impossible to eliminate children's fear of strange environment.
So how should we solve this problem? Next, I will share with parents five correct ways to make children easily enter the park without crying!
(1) Prepare habits in advance so that children can cope with difficulties.
At home, children should be trained to go to the toilet, eat and change clothes independently. Parents should bring more sets of clothes and socks to their children to prevent them from wetting their pants or sprinkling water. You can also prepare a bag in your schoolbag to hold the changed dirty clothes.
(2) Praise children more and give positive psychological hints.
"Our children have grown up and can finally go to kindergarten!" "The teacher said that our children performed very well today and ate a big bowl of rice without the teacher's feeding!" Or "There are so many novel toys in the kindergarten that my mother has never played with them. I really envy you "and so on. In addition to language hints, it is more important to hint at emotions, expressions and behaviors, which can be understood and deeply influenced by parents' attitudes and children.
(3) Bring favorite toys to ease children's anxiety about entering the park.
A plush toy is nothing in the eyes of adults, but in a strange environment far from relatives, this toy carries the emotional support of children. At present, many kindergartens also advise children who have just entered the park to bring their favorite toys on the admission instructions.
(4) Understand children's emotions and guide them with appropriate methods.
For 3-year-old children, it is useless to preach the truth in an all-round way, and it may even have the opposite effect, making children feel that going to kindergarten is a very serious matter. Parents should combine their children's psychological characteristics and guide them to treat kindergarten correctly. For example, going to kindergarten can be a big adventure. All kinds of toys in it are treasures dug up by children. Encourage children to experience more toys and come back to share them with their parents.
(5) Tears are the mark of growth, and parents cannot be easily softened.
The first month of children's admission to the park is the most crucial. If they can stick to it smoothly this month, it will be basically done. Therefore, in the first month, parents must not be easily softened, which is the only way for children to grow up. In this critical period, parents can enter the park by "being late and leaving early" to reduce their children's time in kindergarten and make them feel that the day is not so long and difficult.