There are many reasons why more and more young people in society don't want to get married. To make a list, here are six points.

The first and most important point is that modern people are more free in behavior and thought, or because the social system is more free.

In the past, it was the orders of parents, and if the matchmaker said, it was generally necessary to get married, carry on the family line and get married.

If a person doesn't do this, it is estimated that a mere spit can drown him. However, people who don't get married are only a small part, and even if there are rumors, it only happens occasionally. ? Most people don't care about other people's affairs, or they can't care, because there may be young people in their family who don't want to get married. Everyone is similar, so no one is talking about who. ? Moreover, most people who are talked about don't care about being pointed at. After all, people can't point at his nose and say anything. Those comments behind him can be completely ignored, ignored and ignored. ? If this social pressure is solved, people's independent choice and self-awareness will be stronger. ? Parents' generation has also become open-minded and enlightened, and even grandparents' generation is not as rigid and dogmatic as before. Many people no longer regard marriage as a major event that must be completed in life. ? At the same time, almost all women in the old society lived by men. They can't show themselves to make money. They can only change their fate through marriage, or survive through marriage. ? Even if you don't want to get married, you should find a man to lean on, otherwise her life may be miserable. ? Women today don't have this problem at all. So this is also one of the important factors that young people are unwilling to get married. ? This change in public opinion and moral concepts is actually the first factor that causes more people to be unwilling to get married. What they don't want is actually that they dare not get married.

Of course, many young people don't want to get married for some specific reasons. ? From the man's point of view, getting married will put great financial pressure on them. ? Generally need to buy a house and a car, as well as bride price and wedding. ? Of course, individual women have better family conditions and don't care about men's conditions, so there will be no such pressure. ? It's just that many people still have face pressure. The man feels that everything depends on the woman, and a little ambition will make him feel unwilling. ? In short, most men's marriage and bride price are not small expenses, and cars and houses are also a lot of money. ? To hold a wedding, thank the matchmaker and recognize relatives, the money spent in 7788 is no small expense in any case. ? Money is not spent, nor is it realistic. On the one hand, most women disagree and are dissatisfied, on the other hand, men will feel humiliated among relatives and friends. ? Everyone likes comparison. There is nothing that is not involved, only things that are rolled up, so many people are not married because of economic pressure. ? Secondly, personality and way of thinking. ? Nowadays, there are more and more one-child families, and everyone is a child spoiled by his parents. ? Most young people are selfish and can't take care of others or even themselves. ? In life, you may always think of yourself first, and you will take care of yourself emotionally. Anyway, you can compete by yourself. ? Marriage means that two people should accommodate each other, tolerate each other, take care of each other, take responsibility, and have responsibilities and obligations. ? We should give up some freedom and self, and lose a lot of self-space. This is also a problem that many young people are extremely unwilling to compromise.

One more thing, because the network communication is simple, everyone is exposed to more information. ? Therefore, we have seen a lot of negative information about marriage, and it is easy for everyone to subconsciously amplify those negative cases. ? It may be that society is like this. Everyone's ideology is relatively open and they don't pay so much attention to feelings, so their marriage is not strong, and they may all be planned together. ? If you plan people, forget it. If you plan money, it may be troublesome and dangerous. ? Therefore, if you don't meet someone who knows the root of the matter and is particularly reliable, everyone will be more cautious and dare not walk into the marriage hall casually. ? A little more, you will be more cautious. ? In fact, there is no hatred or resentment between men and women. ? In the final analysis, it's just someone else's problem, but everyone's view of love is open, which is inevitable. ? Therefore, almost everyone has an ex and almost everyone has an old love. After entering the marriage, they may not be able to keep that kind of dullness. ? It is easy to indulge yourself, indulge yourself, and then look for the freshness of extramarital affairs.

So too many divorce cases and too many betrayal cases are also the reasons why many young people dare not get married easily. ? I think it is still possible to get divorced after getting married and having children. At that time, it will not only hurt each other, but also have a very bad influence on innocent children. ? Having such thoughts and consciousness actually makes everyone more responsible. ? From this perspective, the reluctance to get married is actually not a problem for men and women, but everyone's concept has changed, which is indeed an important reason for the transformation of social form.